Live in high-rise buildings, full of strong resentment on the property, cursed house prices are too high is characteristic of this era. Mouth to eat meat because of heart Aguirre has deep reasons behind.
The direction of the real estate market is not wrong, but market economy is also important livelihood. worships money and social characteristics of the times for real estate business to become the new landlords, but they no longer rely on the land leased fortune, but on the government and banks to develop rich-quick, trouble real estate speculators profit, benefit both the local government GDP fame and fortune and long! is clearly in the nude, I have to tell you how this Emperor's New Clothes is a beautiful beautiful!
and opening up to Chinese society suffering from a head, feet hurt foot rule, Western faster, anyway, the Chinese medical community has used the West ill!
New Deal. and more people in the industry believe that the New Deal extended the end of 2009 the supply of housing land transfer, but also against hoarding and other aspects of the specific requirements. a new round of regulation of real estate turmoil is hitting hard. I do not see the dull Yanzhuo. the curtain has just linked up to two successive burst to the king, just want to say: the new drama of a war lords, punch hit the sandbag!
19 strip of land the new regulatory requirements, the future developer to sell the lowest bid bond not less than 20%; transaction, 50% of turnover paid within one month of the first payment, timely payment of the balance of the contract according to the latest time of payment shall not exceed one year; 70% of the available land for protection and small and medium sized houses; build real estate land for open completion reporting system. bull's-eye what is in Beijing, Shanghai, or 9.6 million square kilometers of land on every inch of the country. the recent drought in the Yunnan-Guizhou red earth is thousands of miles, Xinjiang, but in response to spring floods embattled. China is so big, highly centralized only across the board, it is impossible a bull's-eye, therefore, can only play war games staged a vassal!
it is necessary to ensure GDP growth, but also to ensure a sense of security the people living there, but also to achieve multiple goals are not high prices. This is a course multivariate partial differential equations, is the math majors in college will be stumped!
real estate big brother Ren has boasted that he was building houses for the rich, had incurred users indignation and condemnation, in fact, is a chief that great truth. In capitalist society, fundamentally speaking real estate companies, banks, is for people who have the ability to purchase services. in China, such a class of high-income groups, such as the monopoly of state-owned enterprise executives, financial executives, private capitalists, big names star and so on. government officials have a policy, some beautiful promotions. In general, these people more money faster, have a generous large villas and multi-housing units. They aim to buy a house can live, you can also hedge against inflation. These have the ability to share people who can hold up house prices, worry about falling prices.
there is a class of high-income groups. such as the middle state-owned enterprises, private owners, senior executives, cadres above the county level, universities, research institutions and hospitals, etc. experts, professors and senior engineers, etc., these people have higher incomes and stable, the main purpose to buy a house is to improve living standards. they have or intend to have two houses. this type of housing problems of people do not exist.
The third category is the low-income people. as ordinary civil servants, general practitioners and primary and secondary school teachers, state-owned operators, backbone, and senior staff, city property owners, the private sector the backbone of technology and production, production line management and product marketing personnel and so on. their income is not high but relatively stable. Young people mainly solve their own housing, older people mainly solve the housing for their children. They pour out their life savings, the use of time after the payment to the bank for months. The so-called house slaves actually refers to this type of crowd. from April 1, the four countries preferential credit lines to cancel the first suite, the actual increase in lending rates is difficult to buy a house these people real, or even result in ; the crowding-out effect.
real estate in China, there is a class people, the so-called real estate group. real estate group is a distorting mirror, distort the property market, supply and demand imbalance is exaggerated to create the human disorder, and its The truth is behind the speculative hype and the good developers in late May Wenzhou Real .3 suddenly ;!
from the perspective of public grievances, profiteering by developers got to be the monopoly of the state-owned enterprises and speculators cut! However, from the perspective of the market economy is that they Award! As the man's troubled times, peace prosperity to regard them as heroes! who is right? according to Chinese traditional culture point of view, things do not exist to a certain interface, right or wrong, only the rational and irrational!
Chinese cities hundreds of thousands, over a billion trillion people, needs vary, in Beijing wants to put a red tape to manage real estate, just like in the Three Gorges Dam on the construction of a can all over the country to confront famine flooding rain and snow the whole tube good. In front of the National People's commitment to price down might as well hit his eye socket with his fist. Now is the people who really want to hurry to buy a house, perhaps the Prime Minister and Reform Commission really anxious, others have who hurry? < br> Recently, someone had an idea brewing trick shot land reform, make way for the lowest-highest bidder. even the best so twisted by the monks will be confused ideas. These days, the Xinhua News Agency, Commentary published in successive reports for the property market, many people speculate printing of high-rise may be brewing a new round of regulation policy. so far are basically all the real estate policy blocking the way serious. Dayu has blocked a sparse to sparse to containment than the Lord only way around is much better.
saying I very much agree with Renda Xia, meet the public demand for housing is a national policy, not unreasonable for the short-term policies at the expense of long-term interests of society, not to adjustment policies for short-term objectives to long-term goal by the injury. blindly suppress the urine will also suffocate the living.
each of the local situation is very different to address the house and house prices could have been something the local government, central government personally address some preferential policies to attract investment to local needs, some places do not have preferential policies will be able to squeeze Happening, then, then harsh measures are not a bull's-eye, the most likely way is across the board, with predictable results.
I believe that dealing with complex issues simple, with a stiffer, better implementation of the rights and responsibilities under the City Government to the ground. opening up high-end real estate market, in accordance with the provisions of the local per capita income level of local affordable housing prices, to ensure that low-income persons People in Place, or see the local party and government leaders put their heads!
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Monday, February 14, 2011
Psychological Analysis of the original novel
Third, the episode (1)
July 1995 X days.
Maximum wind twelve, are currently being moving north-northwest is expected during the day today, until tomorrow night will be landing at the Shanwei to .......is a very hot weather. At noon, the sun shining land of hazy, but the gray, unlike the past, the assassination of the sun as the eye. If you looked bold, eye can look directly at the sun. in the south of the people know that the typhoon is coming when the sky is like that. on the ground are like the air still, people feel difficulty in breathing, as if living in the steamer, heat the oil to the same body as the sweat soaked out. This is the first sudden storm.
Medical Psychology consultation is a very flexible, and difficult to grasp the science. It is the use of psychological principles, combined with medical theories, through language, drug and other forms of psychological problems or mental illness carry out the purpose of intervention, from a psychological for help, advice and guidance process. This process of psychological counseling, in fact, the exchange of human spirit, to distinguish fantasy and reality. while these exchanges and the resolution and must be based on careful observation of objective objects. Otherwise, the work will become blind counseling. long-term clinical practice proved: a frenzy of people on the surface, is not terrible, because he (she) out of all Jin Lu, see, feel it, easy find a way to deal with; and a seemingly prosaic, to calm people, but also look at psychological counseling, experience tells me, that is the real Thunder. also turn brown and red flower head with a cloth headband, all the rope to the hair behind. torso wearing a light tight black shirt, pants are tight jeans, blue feet, open-toed high-heeled set of the semi- leather sandals. back shoulders carrying a white backpack.
she was greeted at the door soon, and then breezed into the door gait, sit in a chair, gently placed the registration counter in front of me. agility and coordination, posture naturally free and easy, giving a fresh feeling.
Her long face, the forehead is not high, straight nose. eyes is not great, but watery God. cheeks full, so that the face Bu Zhiyu look too thin. painted purple lips slightly valgus.
However, her character is not far from my face. from the appearance point of view, the body short legs and long, greasy skin smooth. slender neck Department of fullness in the chest in stark contrast. slim waist, rounded hips with straight legs, harmonious and happy. in the South really like this girl body rare glimpse is enough to make people forget. I picked up the prescription
looked at and read: : : so simple? dream, or wake up early? said that insomnia is mainly simple brain function problems, little relationship with the outside world, manifested as difficulty falling asleep; compound of insomnia with the variety of factors, performance will vary. such as anxiety, insomnia caused mainly difficulty falling asleep and light sleep and more dreams, and depression are caused by the more waking .......I patiently explained: look a gift horse: who should not be asked to motivation. only at the request of as much as possible to help him (her) to want to achieve the purpose.
Tan Mengna kept swinging his knees, his lips moved, but did not answer my question. The is a sudden change in the way, stretched out his right hand resting on the consultation stage, said: ......< br> After a child, she asked: statement on behalf of the pulse is. heart Deficiency so. concealed.
your emotional problems. do not know. I think this way do not meet the doctor's professional habits, should be rejected her. So Fangxia Bi quipped: staring at the table records, and asked: to solve the problem. you've come here, in case and then later, I can not remember anything, I'm sorry for you, you say it?! remember? Consultants are like this.
She nodded.
I did do a little action, the record before the fan when the fan in the face twice, then put on his head, as is to relax, said: On their own privacy. ;
Tan Mengna mind is very clear, expressive eyes turn a two-turn pain, stand up and get the cup, the way to easy to ask: She refused to answer. she played a bit with the smell of the hair that sow, sweetly pleaded: said they did not believe that in order to stimulate her feelings.
she did not immediately answer my questions. look at her appearance was calm, experience must come before the judge she thought a lot, maybe she really thought about doing ni Regardless, even death is not surprising.
suddenly her cell phone rang, and pulled out her cell phone from the backpack. all right! bye !......he introduces you to come? > This is an important clue.
I continue to ask: home advantage.
I guess: are out of the box can not.
She shook her head, sighed and said: What is the impact? from the heart not miss the meaning? !?
I would like to stimulate what she: can also help your. : ; could see that she's telling the truth.
declare once again I'm angry, but it is almost like a promise to her: and do what we can not do that this line, do not go on the. even if one does not allow. Doctors like you, was the first time I met you very carefully. I think in this world, no more secure than your person. br> her to get started: ; best from beginning to end. Tan Liqun father, mother, Huang Qin, are 1966 young people answered the call to the knowledge of the countryside. two years from the city to live in a foster aunt table.
she grew cheerful and generous, affectionate, intelligent wisdom and love to laugh. In addition, also considerate. Every time I see the table when the aunt did not say anything, she would take the initiative to speak the words for some very childish fun, won the table favorite aunt and family. < br> a, table aunt to pick her up from nursery school to go home, passing through a store, there are many toys, her eyes on a doll, he would not go, my heart wanted, but did not dare to speak. Table aunt seen and said: : love too much performance, often also subject to criticism from teachers and students of jealousy.
Tan Mengna mature early, physical growth is faster than my classmates. 1982, Tan Mengna the sixth grade. X. year-old she higher than their peers who had a length, chest full of the up and become fuller hips, revealing a beautiful figure. from behind, then stringent than a twelve-year-old child. classmate students began to talk about her brave boys began quietly looking for opportunities to get close to her, and even students from middle school.
However, her heart seemed only big cousin, big cousin, ten years older than Tanmeng Na, was her childhood idol, not only because they very good care, but also because: First, big cousin and man, never bullied her; second, much larger than her big cousin, to understand her, listen to her; three her aunt in the table growth from small, not much chance to play with other children. Thus, in her young mind has been greatly felt and the age gap between people, that they ignorant and naive. just a lot of people older than she to understand her ....... While Tan Mengna open mind, go for telling the time, a seven-year-old girl rushed.
I asked: ? See the little girl turned around and ran out quickly.
I asked: After the situation. On such a long time, as a doctor to those who do not know the intention, I feel really a bit anxious. I urged: , looked at the table, said: also did not get to work quickly, and I have immediately handed down. I'm so sorry! today delayed so much of your time. you at any time to consult. Recognizing that little girl!
was getting dark, four or five o'clock in the afternoon as if the night scene. blowing a gale out of the window, while tight after a while. I took my head is full of doubts arose, the clinic lights on, and then gently close the window.
few minutes later, came a plate with a bun, wearing a white shirt next to the skin, black straight jeans lady. to those who is none other than Solvability. Gan Luchun original psychoanalytic novel
July 1995 X days.
Maximum wind twelve, are currently being moving north-northwest is expected during the day today, until tomorrow night will be landing at the Shanwei to .......is a very hot weather. At noon, the sun shining land of hazy, but the gray, unlike the past, the assassination of the sun as the eye. If you looked bold, eye can look directly at the sun. in the south of the people know that the typhoon is coming when the sky is like that. on the ground are like the air still, people feel difficulty in breathing, as if living in the steamer, heat the oil to the same body as the sweat soaked out. This is the first sudden storm.
Medical Psychology consultation is a very flexible, and difficult to grasp the science. It is the use of psychological principles, combined with medical theories, through language, drug and other forms of psychological problems or mental illness carry out the purpose of intervention, from a psychological for help, advice and guidance process. This process of psychological counseling, in fact, the exchange of human spirit, to distinguish fantasy and reality. while these exchanges and the resolution and must be based on careful observation of objective objects. Otherwise, the work will become blind counseling. long-term clinical practice proved: a frenzy of people on the surface, is not terrible, because he (she) out of all Jin Lu, see, feel it, easy find a way to deal with; and a seemingly prosaic, to calm people, but also look at psychological counseling, experience tells me, that is the real Thunder. also turn brown and red flower head with a cloth headband, all the rope to the hair behind. torso wearing a light tight black shirt, pants are tight jeans, blue feet, open-toed high-heeled set of the semi- leather sandals. back shoulders carrying a white backpack.
she was greeted at the door soon, and then breezed into the door gait, sit in a chair, gently placed the registration counter in front of me. agility and coordination, posture naturally free and easy, giving a fresh feeling.
Her long face, the forehead is not high, straight nose. eyes is not great, but watery God. cheeks full, so that the face Bu Zhiyu look too thin. painted purple lips slightly valgus.
However, her character is not far from my face. from the appearance point of view, the body short legs and long, greasy skin smooth. slender neck Department of fullness in the chest in stark contrast. slim waist, rounded hips with straight legs, harmonious and happy. in the South really like this girl body rare glimpse is enough to make people forget. I picked up the prescription
looked at and read: : : so simple? dream, or wake up early? said that insomnia is mainly simple brain function problems, little relationship with the outside world, manifested as difficulty falling asleep; compound of insomnia with the variety of factors, performance will vary. such as anxiety, insomnia caused mainly difficulty falling asleep and light sleep and more dreams, and depression are caused by the more waking .......I patiently explained: look a gift horse: who should not be asked to motivation. only at the request of as much as possible to help him (her) to want to achieve the purpose.
Tan Mengna kept swinging his knees, his lips moved, but did not answer my question. The is a sudden change in the way, stretched out his right hand resting on the consultation stage, said: ......< br> After a child, she asked: statement on behalf of the pulse is. heart Deficiency so. concealed.
your emotional problems. do not know. I think this way do not meet the doctor's professional habits, should be rejected her. So Fangxia Bi quipped: staring at the table records, and asked: to solve the problem. you've come here, in case and then later, I can not remember anything, I'm sorry for you, you say it?! remember? Consultants are like this.
She nodded.
I did do a little action, the record before the fan when the fan in the face twice, then put on his head, as is to relax, said: On their own privacy. ;
Tan Mengna mind is very clear, expressive eyes turn a two-turn pain, stand up and get the cup, the way to easy to ask: She refused to answer. she played a bit with the smell of the hair that sow, sweetly pleaded: said they did not believe that in order to stimulate her feelings.
she did not immediately answer my questions. look at her appearance was calm, experience must come before the judge she thought a lot, maybe she really thought about doing ni Regardless, even death is not surprising.
suddenly her cell phone rang, and pulled out her cell phone from the backpack. all right! bye !......he introduces you to come? > This is an important clue.
I continue to ask: home advantage.
I guess: are out of the box can not.
She shook her head, sighed and said: What is the impact? from the heart not miss the meaning? !?
I would like to stimulate what she: can also help your. : ; could see that she's telling the truth.
declare once again I'm angry, but it is almost like a promise to her: and do what we can not do that this line, do not go on the. even if one does not allow. Doctors like you, was the first time I met you very carefully. I think in this world, no more secure than your person. br> her to get started: ; best from beginning to end. Tan Liqun father, mother, Huang Qin, are 1966 young people answered the call to the knowledge of the countryside. two years from the city to live in a foster aunt table.
she grew cheerful and generous, affectionate, intelligent wisdom and love to laugh. In addition, also considerate. Every time I see the table when the aunt did not say anything, she would take the initiative to speak the words for some very childish fun, won the table favorite aunt and family. < br> a, table aunt to pick her up from nursery school to go home, passing through a store, there are many toys, her eyes on a doll, he would not go, my heart wanted, but did not dare to speak. Table aunt seen and said: : love too much performance, often also subject to criticism from teachers and students of jealousy.
Tan Mengna mature early, physical growth is faster than my classmates. 1982, Tan Mengna the sixth grade. X. year-old she higher than their peers who had a length, chest full of the up and become fuller hips, revealing a beautiful figure. from behind, then stringent than a twelve-year-old child. classmate students began to talk about her brave boys began quietly looking for opportunities to get close to her, and even students from middle school.
However, her heart seemed only big cousin, big cousin, ten years older than Tanmeng Na, was her childhood idol, not only because they very good care, but also because: First, big cousin and man, never bullied her; second, much larger than her big cousin, to understand her, listen to her; three her aunt in the table growth from small, not much chance to play with other children. Thus, in her young mind has been greatly felt and the age gap between people, that they ignorant and naive. just a lot of people older than she to understand her ....... While Tan Mengna open mind, go for telling the time, a seven-year-old girl rushed.
I asked: ? See the little girl turned around and ran out quickly.
I asked: After the situation. On such a long time, as a doctor to those who do not know the intention, I feel really a bit anxious. I urged: , looked at the table, said: also did not get to work quickly, and I have immediately handed down. I'm so sorry! today delayed so much of your time. you at any time to consult. Recognizing that little girl!
was getting dark, four or five o'clock in the afternoon as if the night scene. blowing a gale out of the window, while tight after a while. I took my head is full of doubts arose, the clinic lights on, and then gently close the window.
few minutes later, came a plate with a bun, wearing a white shirt next to the skin, black straight jeans lady. to those who is none other than Solvability. Gan Luchun original psychoanalytic novel
Sunday, February 13, 2011
How men improve their attractiveness to the opposite sex
Do you feel like a woman in front of himself in a very helpless, do you always feel unattractive to women. If so, then I am happy to tell you now, not inherent attractiveness, It can be acquired through training improved, let us analyze under what kind of man women like, and how to improve your charisma, attractiveness index.
love beautiful ancient hero, it is eternal truth. a hero because of who is the personal charm, the charm of the ancient heroes main features: brave, righteous, to ask military and civilian regret country. in the Stone Age, can contribute to peace and prosperity of the hero, often gifted and experienced, with strong government under the rule of Shi Xingren This hero, how can we not love beautiful?
era of development, is changing the landscape of the charm. In the modern day, the girl's deal with them a great view of the changes have taken place. modern woman of the man Standard requirements are: decent looks, elegant, witty conversation with a sense of humor, knowledgeable, personable, a sense of justice and self-motivated, outside a certain social status, can hold up a piece of the sky, including the meticulous care she has a heart, mature, responsible, give her a strong sense of security, between men excel in leadership and personal charm, and in the appropriate schedule of life emerged in the romantic mood. The charm of the modern man in all aspects of , the following statement to all aspects of how we should improve them.
Some say it is a natural appearance, there is no way there is no need to change much. First of all I would like to correct this misconception, because a person's appearance does not merely reflect In the facial features, the clean, hair, wear with very important. You ask yourself, do you often do not take a bath cause body odor, you often do not wash their hair to night hair on? you feet are often the body suit sneakers? If so, sorry, you cut points for their own Meili Zhi. Most girls are like the clean and tidy, they also want a man can do these details, the birth is also very good men's fragrances have confirmed this point. Therefore, men do not need plastic surgery, but if we can do the details, it will not give the offensive.
of conversation and manners, is the accomplishment of the performance. It is to some extent the educational performance, but but to a certain extent, is the result of self-tempering. you jaywalking? whether export swearing Lianpian? is spitting? all of which test your own cultivation. to remember that your behavior is that you show the level and value of your conversation reflects your psychological and ideological. good manners will not make people instantly like you though, but you can gradually add in virtually minutes, slowly people admire you and appreciate you have . sense of humor not everyone is born with, but it is indeed an effective weapon. can adjust the tension, so that friends and loved ones feel happy. But it is important to remember that only the rich accumulation of knowledge to make fun rose to humor, not grandstanding.
knowledge is a valuable asset, which is well known. here not only refers to the knowledge of scientific and cultural knowledge, but on to astronomy to geography, extensive knowledge of the world, related to science technology, current affairs, politics, culture, entertainment, sports, education, lifestyle and interaction with other aspects. If you are a good thinker, you will find these areas, although strange, but it is very striking similarity and commonality. such as the State and national relations is actually the development of human relations and derivatives, whether the people in all areas need to be successful too hard to pay more. Men need the knowledge this book up more and more thick, in order to maintain a permanent attraction not be offensive.
grace, is both a killer of men to women of weapons, but also a cause of life, lily of Life. It showed a man on a woman's modesty, courtesy and respect. in life a magnanimity and tolerance, not because of the small loss of small and large preoccupied. demeanor is a good moral quality of performance, but also a symbol of wisdom. The following concerns a few details of many men, and girls out on a date when the Are you active in and out of the restaurant as she opened the door, seated dinner for her first choice when the seat, do anything to seek her advice is? a lot of small detail has been reflected in the weight of her in your heart and your attitude to her . women are delicate creatures that are eager to medieval chivalry in Europe. Speaking of life, whether you because your friends a little slip of the tongue or the wrong cause of your unhappiness to turn against him? Maybe your time is not will ruin the performance of precious grace of friendship, perhaps you can let others grace grateful to you, respect you.
sense of justice is a good man of principle, even if in other respects a man and then outstanding, if he thought is evil, his actions are damaging the interests of many people, he must be subject to cast aside. In fact, most men are just, but the key is to not show it, because some are often just move to pay price. This requires you to make a trade-off. My principle is that the loss of our planet, do not do not Lose and Win things not to like? Although you probably a lot more trouble. a hero if out of a sense of justice will become a devil, and hearts of the people who in the world, a sense of justice will be respected in order to make things easier for you to help you succeed.
Some might say that now girl is so real, just married Marry a Rich Man. In fact, after my contacts, so most girls just talk about, so do not necessarily true. But you have to let her see hope, and remember This is very important! That means you get motivated, and effective and pragmatic have to go to make her happy to see the future of virtual life. (though not necessarily truly) motivated mainly in the learning and work, such as whether you sense have to work? spare time if you adhere to the charge in his spare time? speak louder than words, your behavior will tell. may have to do this is not easy, but doing nothing all day the prodigal son is not a charismatic people, it would not be like most girls. If your business has a modicum of success and continue an upward trend, I believe that very few women is not that tempted.
social status is an important symbol of success It requires not only their own hard work, understanding of things, and also need the opportunity to visit. So in that sense, not everyone can have high social status. but do not sell ourselves short, although not everyone be a leader, but as long as you want, you can still become the backbone and backbone! you can get the same appreciation and admiration of others. Every woman wants a man is a big umbrella, you can help her shelter, although many people are yearning for this umbrella can resist the foreign danger, in fact, to some extent, this umbrella is more important point is the heart pillar. look for a job by the people, God, if you work hard, you fight, even if you fail, mind you, like your woman is a good man. but remember, provided that you tried. If a woman does not want you if you complain, you need to prove with concrete actions. Of course, if you worked hard without much success, that most women will not go against you stubborn homes.
In fact, many women want the warmth of family, desire a stable relationship. so if you can in life to her meticulous care, and that she will rely on a strong sense of your existence. Although this area does not belong to love, but to some extent better than love touched her heart. because she realized that the warmth, the kind of happiness so true. How to Care for do, where to the point of my suggestion: First, at any time, taking into account your spouse (girlfriend), such as it is raining, you need to consider she has no umbrella, and if you do not where she is to Department to pick her up; always pay attention to what she wanted, and she purchased in advance, so you can give her a big surprise. If there is anything she needs you remember, remember do not forget, always let her understand her position in your heart. Of course, this degree of care to grasp just right, (especially in the pursuit of the course) Do not let her feel the level of development beyond the relations of things outside, remember this point is very important, such as said she is not your girlfriend, but you all day to her husband's attitude to focus on her private life.
about mature and responsible, this is your career based on trust in leadership is trust between friends based on a sense of security is the cornerstone of a woman, is a good man should have the basic quality, but not so easy to do. I see a lot of people are noted in the marriage revelation of this, how many people can be done? you may wish to ask ourselves, when you are committed, you can reject any temptation? such as the pursuit of beauty. When you are ready to jump on the eve of the nest, you also have to work to do to the letter good? to know can do a lot of people think this means the means give up, give up a lot of really good things, just to get what you want. know people who can give up too tightly clenched happy.
believe that every man wanted to be generals, heroes, under the leadership of men thrilling dry cause. can be the most important thing because of who the leadership skills that you have prestige, whether others follow your lead. In my experience, be respected by others willing to let other people have to follow you, you must first do better than others. you have to pay more to someone else, in every respect to show your best, which is the basis for trust in you to get someone else, but to do so can only give you a key. To be a leader, you may be many ways: generous and tolerant. device Xiao Yi Ying, tolerance is large. Since the difference in personality is too complex so that only you have a tolerant attitude towards your friends, your enemies in order to gradually expand their influence and power. narrow individualism, will only put yourself in isolation, you have to learn to communicate with others, let others know you, too willing to let others follow you. Do not want to own everything, and more have to consider other people's feelings and interests, with their charisma to lead the team, in order to get everyone full of fighting spirit, despite everything. to know you as a team leader, the ultimate prize of the largest and only you. But patience is not the enemy of tolerance , tolerance on the premise that you already beat him, he has convinced you have lost, and you could completely defeat but he did not. this will return with gratitude and loyalty. Xiangxi the world the story of a hero another, regardless of who the winner, the hero always get the respect of friends and enemies.
the last to talk about the romantic ambience of living it. This is not a man should do, but this category also belongs to enjoy life. monotonous life always boring, and occasionally a cup of flavoring agent or a very good way. always remember that special day a few m Christmas, Valentine's Day, Women's Day, her birthday, love (wedding) anniversaries. because you In the performance of these special days, perhaps more than you Gengrang the other day she was impressed by the performance. woman character, such as water, passion is a lot of women desire. If you do not want the idea of a woman have an affair, and that do not let that passion goes a permanent bar. special day candlelight dinner, a vase of flowers may be brought back memories of when she was in love, you can also let you in at night, act more passion. I do not say a man how to spin romantic point: before the meeting may wish to buy a bunch of roses, do not hesitate, not that men have no courage. women will reject your love, but most extent, the flowers will not refuse you; if you have artistic talent can also be displayed dedication often than the language of music can play better results. carefully prepared a special holiday gift, if there is enough time, you can personally make a gift; love letter grade lubrication of love and a catalyst, provided that your letter must be sincere, must not generalities, empty and tasteless, love letters is not the real text of the gorgeous mass destruction, but rather to enrich the content of mm you have done for her.
Finally, I would like to note the improvement of personal charisma, not just feelings useful, it can play all aspects of your life to improve role. personal charismatic men tend to have more chance of success.
love beautiful ancient hero, it is eternal truth. a hero because of who is the personal charm, the charm of the ancient heroes main features: brave, righteous, to ask military and civilian regret country. in the Stone Age, can contribute to peace and prosperity of the hero, often gifted and experienced, with strong government under the rule of Shi Xingren This hero, how can we not love beautiful?
era of development, is changing the landscape of the charm. In the modern day, the girl's deal with them a great view of the changes have taken place. modern woman of the man Standard requirements are: decent looks, elegant, witty conversation with a sense of humor, knowledgeable, personable, a sense of justice and self-motivated, outside a certain social status, can hold up a piece of the sky, including the meticulous care she has a heart, mature, responsible, give her a strong sense of security, between men excel in leadership and personal charm, and in the appropriate schedule of life emerged in the romantic mood. The charm of the modern man in all aspects of , the following statement to all aspects of how we should improve them.
Some say it is a natural appearance, there is no way there is no need to change much. First of all I would like to correct this misconception, because a person's appearance does not merely reflect In the facial features, the clean, hair, wear with very important. You ask yourself, do you often do not take a bath cause body odor, you often do not wash their hair to night hair on? you feet are often the body suit sneakers? If so, sorry, you cut points for their own Meili Zhi. Most girls are like the clean and tidy, they also want a man can do these details, the birth is also very good men's fragrances have confirmed this point. Therefore, men do not need plastic surgery, but if we can do the details, it will not give the offensive.
of conversation and manners, is the accomplishment of the performance. It is to some extent the educational performance, but but to a certain extent, is the result of self-tempering. you jaywalking? whether export swearing Lianpian? is spitting? all of which test your own cultivation. to remember that your behavior is that you show the level and value of your conversation reflects your psychological and ideological. good manners will not make people instantly like you though, but you can gradually add in virtually minutes, slowly people admire you and appreciate you have . sense of humor not everyone is born with, but it is indeed an effective weapon. can adjust the tension, so that friends and loved ones feel happy. But it is important to remember that only the rich accumulation of knowledge to make fun rose to humor, not grandstanding.
knowledge is a valuable asset, which is well known. here not only refers to the knowledge of scientific and cultural knowledge, but on to astronomy to geography, extensive knowledge of the world, related to science technology, current affairs, politics, culture, entertainment, sports, education, lifestyle and interaction with other aspects. If you are a good thinker, you will find these areas, although strange, but it is very striking similarity and commonality. such as the State and national relations is actually the development of human relations and derivatives, whether the people in all areas need to be successful too hard to pay more. Men need the knowledge this book up more and more thick, in order to maintain a permanent attraction not be offensive.
grace, is both a killer of men to women of weapons, but also a cause of life, lily of Life. It showed a man on a woman's modesty, courtesy and respect. in life a magnanimity and tolerance, not because of the small loss of small and large preoccupied. demeanor is a good moral quality of performance, but also a symbol of wisdom. The following concerns a few details of many men, and girls out on a date when the Are you active in and out of the restaurant as she opened the door, seated dinner for her first choice when the seat, do anything to seek her advice is? a lot of small detail has been reflected in the weight of her in your heart and your attitude to her . women are delicate creatures that are eager to medieval chivalry in Europe. Speaking of life, whether you because your friends a little slip of the tongue or the wrong cause of your unhappiness to turn against him? Maybe your time is not will ruin the performance of precious grace of friendship, perhaps you can let others grace grateful to you, respect you.
sense of justice is a good man of principle, even if in other respects a man and then outstanding, if he thought is evil, his actions are damaging the interests of many people, he must be subject to cast aside. In fact, most men are just, but the key is to not show it, because some are often just move to pay price. This requires you to make a trade-off. My principle is that the loss of our planet, do not do not Lose and Win things not to like? Although you probably a lot more trouble. a hero if out of a sense of justice will become a devil, and hearts of the people who in the world, a sense of justice will be respected in order to make things easier for you to help you succeed.
Some might say that now girl is so real, just married Marry a Rich Man. In fact, after my contacts, so most girls just talk about, so do not necessarily true. But you have to let her see hope, and remember This is very important! That means you get motivated, and effective and pragmatic have to go to make her happy to see the future of virtual life. (though not necessarily truly) motivated mainly in the learning and work, such as whether you sense have to work? spare time if you adhere to the charge in his spare time? speak louder than words, your behavior will tell. may have to do this is not easy, but doing nothing all day the prodigal son is not a charismatic people, it would not be like most girls. If your business has a modicum of success and continue an upward trend, I believe that very few women is not that tempted.
social status is an important symbol of success It requires not only their own hard work, understanding of things, and also need the opportunity to visit. So in that sense, not everyone can have high social status. but do not sell ourselves short, although not everyone be a leader, but as long as you want, you can still become the backbone and backbone! you can get the same appreciation and admiration of others. Every woman wants a man is a big umbrella, you can help her shelter, although many people are yearning for this umbrella can resist the foreign danger, in fact, to some extent, this umbrella is more important point is the heart pillar. look for a job by the people, God, if you work hard, you fight, even if you fail, mind you, like your woman is a good man. but remember, provided that you tried. If a woman does not want you if you complain, you need to prove with concrete actions. Of course, if you worked hard without much success, that most women will not go against you stubborn homes.
In fact, many women want the warmth of family, desire a stable relationship. so if you can in life to her meticulous care, and that she will rely on a strong sense of your existence. Although this area does not belong to love, but to some extent better than love touched her heart. because she realized that the warmth, the kind of happiness so true. How to Care for do, where to the point of my suggestion: First, at any time, taking into account your spouse (girlfriend), such as it is raining, you need to consider she has no umbrella, and if you do not where she is to Department to pick her up; always pay attention to what she wanted, and she purchased in advance, so you can give her a big surprise. If there is anything she needs you remember, remember do not forget, always let her understand her position in your heart. Of course, this degree of care to grasp just right, (especially in the pursuit of the course) Do not let her feel the level of development beyond the relations of things outside, remember this point is very important, such as said she is not your girlfriend, but you all day to her husband's attitude to focus on her private life.
about mature and responsible, this is your career based on trust in leadership is trust between friends based on a sense of security is the cornerstone of a woman, is a good man should have the basic quality, but not so easy to do. I see a lot of people are noted in the marriage revelation of this, how many people can be done? you may wish to ask ourselves, when you are committed, you can reject any temptation? such as the pursuit of beauty. When you are ready to jump on the eve of the nest, you also have to work to do to the letter good? to know can do a lot of people think this means the means give up, give up a lot of really good things, just to get what you want. know people who can give up too tightly clenched happy.
believe that every man wanted to be generals, heroes, under the leadership of men thrilling dry cause. can be the most important thing because of who the leadership skills that you have prestige, whether others follow your lead. In my experience, be respected by others willing to let other people have to follow you, you must first do better than others. you have to pay more to someone else, in every respect to show your best, which is the basis for trust in you to get someone else, but to do so can only give you a key. To be a leader, you may be many ways: generous and tolerant. device Xiao Yi Ying, tolerance is large. Since the difference in personality is too complex so that only you have a tolerant attitude towards your friends, your enemies in order to gradually expand their influence and power. narrow individualism, will only put yourself in isolation, you have to learn to communicate with others, let others know you, too willing to let others follow you. Do not want to own everything, and more have to consider other people's feelings and interests, with their charisma to lead the team, in order to get everyone full of fighting spirit, despite everything. to know you as a team leader, the ultimate prize of the largest and only you. But patience is not the enemy of tolerance , tolerance on the premise that you already beat him, he has convinced you have lost, and you could completely defeat but he did not. this will return with gratitude and loyalty. Xiangxi the world the story of a hero another, regardless of who the winner, the hero always get the respect of friends and enemies.
the last to talk about the romantic ambience of living it. This is not a man should do, but this category also belongs to enjoy life. monotonous life always boring, and occasionally a cup of flavoring agent or a very good way. always remember that special day a few m Christmas, Valentine's Day, Women's Day, her birthday, love (wedding) anniversaries. because you In the performance of these special days, perhaps more than you Gengrang the other day she was impressed by the performance. woman character, such as water, passion is a lot of women desire. If you do not want the idea of a woman have an affair, and that do not let that passion goes a permanent bar. special day candlelight dinner, a vase of flowers may be brought back memories of when she was in love, you can also let you in at night, act more passion. I do not say a man how to spin romantic point: before the meeting may wish to buy a bunch of roses, do not hesitate, not that men have no courage. women will reject your love, but most extent, the flowers will not refuse you; if you have artistic talent can also be displayed dedication often than the language of music can play better results. carefully prepared a special holiday gift, if there is enough time, you can personally make a gift; love letter grade lubrication of love and a catalyst, provided that your letter must be sincere, must not generalities, empty and tasteless, love letters is not the real text of the gorgeous mass destruction, but rather to enrich the content of mm you have done for her.
Finally, I would like to note the improvement of personal charisma, not just feelings useful, it can play all aspects of your life to improve role. personal charismatic men tend to have more chance of success.
Friday, February 11, 2011
Flooring industry, dealers inclusive price increases beginning of the year
Network HC household items right to choose the floor type is the dealer. The dealers aim is: to have good sales, make money, to meet consumer preferences, he will choose the business in keeping with his goal on the floor, the dealer is always willing to do lose money trading.
flooring industry increasingly uncertain market, the market welcomed the most complete product category. From wood to strengthen the wood and then to multi-layer, multi-family marketing, the most systematic price system: a full range of product categories with high, medium and low price range, to maximize the consumer to meet the needs of different levels of consumption.
no matter the economic downturn in the economy, price and value in the consumer purchase process occupy a major position. Into 2011, high, medium and low-grade flooring brand as business The industry said, companies now need to produce solid wood flooring, wood composite, laminate flooring has, as far as possible the whole product category, in order to expand the dealer's profitability. It should be noted that take the high road of laminate flooring products, its market share than solid wood flooring.
Shanghai market floor price growth
beginning of the year, of course, businesses choose flooring brands in the low-cost, more conducive to the pursuit of cost control and low-risk, and Association experts advise, not less than 70 yuan / square meter, or low quality, low-floor low-cost environmentally friendly products are hardly any market.
the other hand, select low-cost agent in the floor of the brand's business should be noted that, Is the so-called
dealers also aware that the flooring industry with China's Shanghai manufacturing more or less, still not completely divorced from the Shanghai local companies pay more attention to the floor through the cultivation of talents, strengthen scientific and technological innovation Just to 2011, the Shanghai part of the floor of large building materials market has been showing upward trend in prices, price increases of 5% -10%. Insiders analyzed that the rigidity of the floor due to price increases had little effect on consumer demand; In addition, the flooring materials to the countryside with no doubt boost the rural consumer market, the same farmers expect high quality cheap flooring throughout.
based on current practice, farmers need to rebuild a new house laying of the floor, how many would be able to accept the price floor, and whether to launch real businesses throughout the United States and the farmers high quality and price floor, which are for further observation.
flooring industry increasingly uncertain market, the market welcomed the most complete product category. From wood to strengthen the wood and then to multi-layer, multi-family marketing, the most systematic price system: a full range of product categories with high, medium and low price range, to maximize the consumer to meet the needs of different levels of consumption.
no matter the economic downturn in the economy, price and value in the consumer purchase process occupy a major position. Into 2011, high, medium and low-grade flooring brand as business The industry said, companies now need to produce solid wood flooring, wood composite, laminate flooring has, as far as possible the whole product category, in order to expand the dealer's profitability. It should be noted that take the high road of laminate flooring products, its market share than solid wood flooring.
Shanghai market floor price growth
beginning of the year, of course, businesses choose flooring brands in the low-cost, more conducive to the pursuit of cost control and low-risk, and Association experts advise, not less than 70 yuan / square meter, or low quality, low-floor low-cost environmentally friendly products are hardly any market.
the other hand, select low-cost agent in the floor of the brand's business should be noted that, Is the so-called
dealers also aware that the flooring industry with China's Shanghai manufacturing more or less, still not completely divorced from the Shanghai local companies pay more attention to the floor through the cultivation of talents, strengthen scientific and technological innovation Just to 2011, the Shanghai part of the floor of large building materials market has been showing upward trend in prices, price increases of 5% -10%. Insiders analyzed that the rigidity of the floor due to price increases had little effect on consumer demand; In addition, the flooring materials to the countryside with no doubt boost the rural consumer market, the same farmers expect high quality cheap flooring throughout.
based on current practice, farmers need to rebuild a new house laying of the floor, how many would be able to accept the price floor, and whether to launch real businesses throughout the United States and the farmers high quality and price floor, which are for further observation.
Thursday, February 10, 2011
A life wisdom 300 (c)
A life wisdom 300 (c)
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61.
Outstanding career in the noble qualities in perfect, this is the most unusual person. Where heroes, there must be a high quality. Juenan mediocrity to win applause. in a noble cause is different from the mere mortals we can excel, and become the extraordinary transcendence of the characters. In doing menial occupations and no big deal then great: more more results easy, no glory at all the more. the noble cause that you have exceptional style king: Chung cries, people who yearn for.
62. the best person for the use of tools, some people use the
crude tools to want people to think they are equipped with special skills. This is a dangerous their own entertainment, such as by the setback, in fact, reasonable in the matter. as the great king will not have to and diminished by the prime minister. On the contrary , all honor is usually the property of their careers successful mastermind, as things are attributed to the mastermind Zaobai Ji as his default. to fame is the last person who. People never say someone but that person is > If you are really great people, it is still a good first start, which will make you get double benefits. assuming all other things being equal, those who must first be pre-start advantage. Some people could have in their trades in Bainiaozhaofeng like to beat, as they can be chosen to let other people share the first move. preemptive reputation who is the eldest son (by the translator inheritance mm), and then to the second son who is (no inheritance rights mm Translator by), and the like can only be obtained through legal proceedings little thin financial ends meet. No matter how hard the latter, there are always bound to suffer the fate of others ridiculed further. subtle secret of the genius careful not to risk the wrong conditions, always ingenious, ways to open up the success of River Drive. smart people are good at putting in the final to be among the hero of the forest. Some people are reluctant to second-rate ranking first in class is not the time (or: better a chicken's mouth, not the translator mm by ox).
64. try to stay away from trouble to avoid the scourge of sorrow
, both sensible and useful. act will make you remove a lot of trouble be careful, so careful to say is give you Lucky and soothing pleasure of the Nu Xina goddess ①. Do not bring irreparable bad news to others, not themselves received such bad news. Some people hear a lot of sweet flattery, ears have been hard to determine loyalty good; some people due to hear a lot of rumors and nobody knows good and evil; well as portraits of Miss Lida Benitez ② against a poison every day the same thing would be difficult to quiet. In order to get someone else to discuss (even if he is your close friend) for life to please and let their sorrows, nor is it good policy. Though there have been some people for your advice, but he has not bear any risk, so you will not need to please him to take his happiness seriously. When you are happy to give to others means giving yourself up, remember this lesson: Rather than letting your own pain relief after the bear no better to let other people be a little pain now.
65. fun fun to be refined as intelligence
elegant as can be cultivated. Toutou purely on the things known about, you can open your appetite, increase your desire, so if you later find it, will feel joy doubled. see someone to pursue what is, you can judge his talents compete. intelligence higher the greater its goal. mouth wide open big, big bite things also; Mind noble whoever in the lofty cause. In the pure taste and elegant in front, even the most distinguished people in the great can not help but fear, who will lose their most perfect confidence. Few Tai perfectly to the highest things, so you enjoy, do not be too demanding. interesting come and contact with others related. you through constant practice, and finally the formation of the appreciation of your own fun. If you can make on those who enjoy the taste of reaching perfection that is your good fortune . However, they do not claim to what are not satisfied, this is a stupid extreme psychological. If this is for putting on an act of extreme psychological rather than as a natural disposition, is a somewhat hateful. Some people hope that God has created Another perfect world and other things like this to meet their own unrealistic to imagine.
66.
some people act in hospice work to focus on whether compliance is dance act from, qualifying loss to , do not pay attention to whether the final objective to achieve. So, no matter how hard they work, if failed, after all, is to lose face. People always say winning is not required because the winner. Most people do not attach importance to the specific process, only the success of Heroes. as long as you can fulfill its wish to achieve the target, you will get a reputation. regardless of how you use the tool is not a pleasant, well that ends well. If you need to do anything to make things done, then the unscrupulous means precisely true.
67. which line can you get praised for what their merciful the.
rely on most things, good or bad people are satisfied. perfect compliment needed help, like the daring needed spring breeze: Life depends on the breathing. Some of occupation is that everyone likes, but there are some occupations although more important, it is difficult for the ordinary people to notice. The former is obvious to all, everyone likes; the latter is rare, and requires a deeper accomplishments, but unfortunately it was difficult to faint, though respectable and sound can be heard especially in respect. The most famous king of the kings who win, it will be the kings of Aragon Putian praise, because they are prominent Lawrence of conquerors and the battlefield . A great man should prefer the most prestigious occupations, those occupations that everyone understood everyone to engage. If he can win all the praise, he could be immortal fame.
68. to be understood
people understand you more than you people remember you because intelligence is greater than the memory. in the things about the future you should remind people sometimes, and sometimes it should be for their advice. Some people Shique the time is ripe did not do this the right thing, just because they simply forget that. you kindly word of advice, that the stakes. sensitive to the situation and this is only a very great poetry. Once you assign the lack of this before will lose a lot of opportunity for success. Let those who see things the other people out guide to doubt and confusion; for those who see things the lack of people who seek out such wisdom. man should be prudent and careful guide to doubt and confusion, people seeking A guide to interpretation and confusion can also be prudent to point to. If there is scraped guide to the risk of themselves, then particular care should be taken. When the hint is not enough, the best way to show your good taste, and appears to be more open. If the other party has openly say Because you do not have to pursue those things.
69. Do not succumb to the urge to
every great man is not an ordinary little idea what to whom at once tempted. careful self-examination of the heart is: to understand or predict your temperament, the opposite to people's movement and the balanced nature. self-examination begins with self-knowledge. some people mad strange days, patience is always the act, signs of trouble will affect their mood changes. Because of this imbalance at the mercy of a vicious, they work efficiency is always self-contradictory. this mad character excessive thinning will not only destroy their will to combat their common sense, harassment, and understanding of their desires.
70. rejected well-
you can not put everything presented to all the people, give and refuse to be equally important, especially for those orders is that, among the key question is how to reject. and some people refuse to than the other promise but also some valuable: sometimes gilded, . they may afterwards make concessions, but others will not have a good impression on them because they were called were disappointed at the beginning. Do not turn down too much to turn down someone else die, bit by bit to make people feel their disappointment, never Do a complete rebuff to turn down: as a result, people no longer count on you. should always keep a little hope on the finish, making a slight increase in the pain refused to sweet. Even if the abolition of the previous benefits, but also do very polite, even if the compensation is not action, but also may wish to use the number of paying lip service to charge. Do not temper or made to do the delicate care of people
incoherently and perfection in all things related is always consistent, it is at this point shows that he's brilliant. only the fundamental things related causes and stakes can change his behavior. In this matter carefully, capricious is the most taboo. Some people are changing every day, every day, along with their luck changed, their will and understanding Force also followed changes every day. Yesterday they only make concessions, but today turned into regression. They own pollution of its reputation, really makes people confused.
72. error of law enforcement to be decisive
harm might as well do not hesitate to act never harm large. stationary movement of things than things more easily damaged. Some people are always playing mind uncertainty, need someone urges. Many times this is not because they lack clear off, but because they act in drag because they are actually quite clear grasp of the people. can see clearly where the difficulties lie, can be described as smart, but if they are well-taken refuge, is the real smart. while some people will never be hindered by any thing, they with a superb sense and a strong determination. They were born to do a noble cause, they see the truth behind good at making decisions, so that they can easily be successful. They always what it preaches, yet there is something done. their own luck quite sure, they are able to more confidence in the glory.
73. backoff proper way
retreat is a saying cautious people to overcome difficulties coup. Even the most troubled people caught in the maze, they can joke with one of the most elegant escape Enron itself, can be described as a smile off disaster. Gongzha Luo man servicemen greatest source of courage to it. You can say the contrary of what kind he seeks to change the subject.'s most ingenious approach is to pretend that topic is not referred to you, but someone else.
74.
to be with people the most savage of animals live in cities. The lack of self-knowledge is one of those bad habits make it difficult to close. They honor to change the temper. arouses anger at every turn, by no means famous recipe. think of it, these people is nothing more than a morose monster, ready to run wild playing cross and rude. Unfortunately, the servant approached him , as it approached a tiger, scary places with a whip of body. Such people have to seek high groveling, telling anyone holding; now once power in hand, he wanted that every one unhappy to wipe out Old shame. In fact, because of his high now, he should be everyone want to climb up close to the figures, but because of his vanity, while filling all mean rude and shunned him. For such people the most polite punishment is simply not to ignore him. You are like the really wise to put your wisdom to the benefit of others.
75.
to choose heroes for the division as your example of a hero, but you'd better and his race rather than slavishly imitating him. the world with a variety of great men, in their own selected a top figure in the industry as their role model, but not to mechanically follow him, but to more than him. Alexander the tomb of Hector Cornelius latent sadness, but he is not heck Cornelius cry, but cried and cried like heck to stay his missed as made famous by Sri Lanka. everything in the world, but the most famous of others can arouse their overflowing with ambition. others were known as excited to forge ahead in the horn, can make people forget the march out of pure jealousy rise up and do something noble cause.
76. Do not always prudent to joke
cautious The key is that it has serious, seriousness is easier than gimmicks to earn respect. always like joker hard to perfect, and easy to become a laughing stock. We regard him as a liar who will not believe him. the one hand we fear deceived by him, on the other hand are more afraid of being laughed at him. It has never been a good joke to get people who do not know what to say when is serious, then this is almost equal to nothing serious, then he can say. the worst No sense of humor that endless sense of humor too. Some people obtained a reputation for wit, but lost the final so funny. joking around of course, should have, but other times be serious.
77 . adjust ourselves and with others of the right to affordable
be a fickle, words and deeds decent Provincetown Waters. and scholars intersection, conversation should be displayed between the knowledge of their own; and saints intersection, virtuous behavior should appear. This is a wonderful way to get good. because the behavior is similar to easy to feel good, then will be congenial. you should first observe each other's temperament temperament, and then determine how to get along with. whether he is a stern, or a lively and funny, you should do pretty good idea, before sailing boats sailing, the person salute. If you are asking each other, which is even more important. Even if you just want to make a prudent person acting to adjust themselves to suit others is a very useful principles of life. Of course, this is not an ordinary person can do. But on the CMP knowledgeable, interested in a wide range of people, which he did not fall hard.
78. How to do things to explore in the trial of the people always rush
stupid act, because most of them foolhardy. They look to be too simple, not able to anticipate danger, do not worry about the discredited. but cautious people are cautious. they first thought, field trips, and then the line of, to ensure safety. wise people know, although sometimes the fate of God will be spared, but the reckless move doomed to failure. If the depth is unknown, advise you slowly, it may be wide open eyes, ears upright, wary, groping forward, in order to down to earth. In a world, with people everywhere Xianbing. Duochaduosi, it is the best policy.
79.
pleasant personality if unchecked, this will not be a defect, but Health is a big advantage. maybe wit make it even better. to the greatest person can successfully use all grace and humor to win favor. but they were also very careful attention from do not do rude things. Others saw the joke as shortcut out of the woods. Some things should be laughing with them, even those others that are serious business. This will show a considerable degree of plain and easy-going, others will have a wonderful charming effect.
80 . In terms of Bo well-informed to be careful
life, you half to gain knowledge. But things rarely seen in person, the rest have to rely on others to know. Our ears to grasp the truth is a false door front door. Most often depends on seeing the truth, very few rely on what they hear. the eyes and ears in contact with the truth, very little is absolutely genuine, from the so-called truth is far more impure. Once-human transmission, it will always be mixed human communicators emotions. but as long as the role of emotion in the things will be more than a layer of color, so repulsive, or encouraging, so we prefer some kind of impression. higher than the critics sing the praises of those who deserve our attention more. To see through his motive, bias might be, the map takes. to beware of deceptive people and ordinary people often make mistakes.
81. update your brilliant
This is the secret of the Phoenix regeneration. remarkable, after all, become rotten , reputation, after all, do. Over time, the then respect will erode a large, and then to the remarkable achievement of the elderly will also be overcome mediocrity. Thus the courage, talent, happiness and everything else should always be updated. should have the courage to reproduce your brilliant, as the sun, repeated injection dawn. restrained, intended to make people miss double; replay glory, in order to make them applaud.
82. not full-Definitely not perfect all the wise
Mean summed wisdom. had regular errors. squeezed orange juice only bitterness. even if they were not happy to be extreme, abuse of depletion of talent will be imaginative; as a tyrant, like go to the milking, will only get the blood.
83. allow yourself to forgive the fault of reckless behavior
help others see that sometimes the best way you can. jealous person usually presents to the exclusion of the more civilized act of envy, the greater their crimes. The reason why jealousy against perfect, people can not tolerate being in the perfect; people condemn completely perfect. jealous of people into the Argus A Adams, designed to find flaws in a perfect, only for the purpose of masturbation. picky blamed as lightning, always hit the highest places. Precisely because of these reasons, so even Homer, it will inevitably be a failure sparse, so you have to pretend your wisdom or courage, but not prudent mm mm careless mistakes will be made. This malware will calmed down and is no longer toxic foam flying. This is just jealous bull face, you waving red cape to students and to be immortal off.
84. to know how to grab things do not catch the enemy
blade, blade flames; if grasping handle, the knife can be of body. This truth also applies to race. wise men found the usefulness of the enemy than a fool friends found more useful. good faith is afraid of the difficulties Hill, often malicious easily leveled. Many people are great, mostly prompted by their enemies. flattery is more dangerous than hatred, because hatred of the cover to correct the error flattery. cautious eyes from the evil of others to find a mirror. It is more than mirror the true loving, people to reduce or to correct shortcomings. Every man and vicious competitors will get an exception when dealing with the opposite careful.
85. Do not become a license to do
excellent thing liable to abuse. we all coveted in something to easy to its troubles. useless is a bad thing, but all things are beneficial to worse. some people because of their victorious and defeated, as was one immediate desire as being flouted. license this variable exists among all perfect. They lost the first earned a reputation for unique and was ignored for the flat. cure extreme talent when medicine is to show the degree of moderation. should be extremely pursuit perfect, but show to grasp the sense of proportion. torch more light, consume more, continuing the shorter. For a real respect, to be the impression that you are a rare person.
86.
people to stop rumors of a long monster, grows more than double manufacturing malicious eyes, more indiscriminate defamation of the tongue. sometimes thrown up rumors to make the best reputation vanished. If it is the same as the nickname attached to your body, your reputation will be so disappear. people will often highlight the weaknesses or flaws are interested in some silly whispers mm because these are good topics. sometimes jealous of our opponents cunningly fashioned out of thin air these defects. dirty joke out of the mouths of speakers faster than the brazen lies the reputation destroyed. get bad reputation is easy, because the bad thing is easy to believe and difficult to erase. so careful to avoid these people, pay attention to those vulgar and insolent behavior, because prevention is better than treatment sick times.
87.
culture and education and for the life of the Man. culture on people than animals. culture makes us truly human mm more educated, more great people. The Greeks thus view the universe in others as conversations, are required to have cultivated. some people inside and outside of their talent, in their concepts, words and deeds and body accessories (like bark) as well as their spiritual gifts (as fruit) and shows a natural breeding. Another Some people are so vulgar, that is unbearable with their wild dirty stain everything, even smear their good quality.
88. generous to others
aspire to lofty. great man ever not cheap. When talking with others, especially when talking about the unpleasant subject, you do not take into account the various details. pay attention to some things, but a little random. become trivial conversation inquiry is not good. to show a kind of polite, noble generosity. It is a grace, the control of others is a great tips on things to pretend indifference. to learn to ignore in your friends, acquaintances, especially your enemies in large Most things. excessive cautious is undesirable. If this is a part of your character, you will be very annoying. on such unpleasant things to heart then was crazy. to remember that people often act according to nature: the their mind and the ability of the.
89. Meditate your self
clear grasp of character, wisdom, judgments and emotions. If you do not know yourself, you can not control yourself. mirrors can be used according to the face, but , the only way to observe the spirit of their own wise self-reflection. When you no longer worry about their external image, try to amend and improve the internal image. In order to handle matters wisely, you should be careful to accurately estimate and wisdom to determine what will meet your challenges, measuring the depth and wisdom of your.
90. live longer, better life art
there are two things lead to a premature end of life: stupidity and degradation. Some people because they do not know how to save lives and deaths; others it is because do not want to save lives and deaths; as virtue is its own reward and evil is its own punishment. in a life of evil people, he doubly short life; and do good will receive eternal life. spiritual power passed to the body, a better life both good intentions, there are extended.
91.
think twice if a person is doing a piece of When a premonition that something will fail, observers will see this very clearly; when the observer is the enemy, he will see more clearly. when you judge the emotional impulse in the shaken, calm down and find that extremely stupid . When you doubt the wisdom of its time to take one thing is very dangerous. more secure approach is to do nothing. careful not to bet on the possibility, it is always in control, such as Japan and a large reason under; when something was brewing when a cautious condemnation, how it might be a good ending it? even after careful review of the resolution will be adopted unanimously by the error, for those who have been criticized by reason of suspicion and things, what can we expect?
92. in any case must have extraordinary wisdom
This is the demeanor of the highest standards, the higher your position, this criterion becomes necessary. an ounce of care is worth a pound of wisdom. steady progress vulgar applause than winning is more important. prudent reputation is that you can win the highest praise. If you are satisfied that a prudent person, that is enough, he agreed with almost equal success touchstone.
93. generalist
all respects perfect, and many people will be able to match him, he always make fun of life and the joy passed to friends. that life is full of variety and perfection happy. know how to love beautiful things is an art. Since the natural man into the essence of the natural world, let the artistic tastes of people through training and intelligence to be a universal right.
94. unfathomable genius
prudent person who wants the respect of others, then he should not let others see how much wisdom and courage. to let people know you, but do not let them know you; no one can see you're a genius limit and no one was disappointed. Let others guess how much of your genius, or even suspect that your genius, your genius mm than the display of genius, whether you just how great mm also allow you to win other people's worship.
95. to look forward to continue to develop forever
others expect of you, so expect more and more people because of your great achievements and look forward to greater achievements. Do not start to show your everything. conceal your power and knowledge is your trick, you have to slowly move forward to success.
96.
good sense good sense is the rational element, the cornerstone of care with which you can easily succeed . It is a gift, it is the first one, is the best. good sense is our armor, without it, people will say we head not working; without it, we will lose a lot. our life All actions should be relied on in the guidance and approval, because everything depends on the intelligence. it naturally tend to the most appropriate of all the most rational thing.
97. fame and keep your reputation
we like fame, but fame hard to come by, because it arises from excellence, and excellence is rare, it is just as mediocre as usual, once it is, it is easy to maintain. it has to fulfill many promises, it is to make a lot of deeds. It comes from noble birth, if and noble behavior, with a dignified weather. genuine reputation is real and lasting fame.
98. to hide your intentions
passion is the spirit of the door. The most practical knowledge exists in the cover being. flashed their cards may be lost. Do not let other people's concerns over your care and caution. When your opponent is the same as the Bobcats look into your mind, you have to spray like a squid Like Mexico, cover it, do not let anyone find out your intentions, do not let others foresaw it, and do not obstruct others or brag about your wishes.
99.
world of truth and appearance of things, their appearance and truth often different. very few people see through the appearance of truth, most content with superficial appearance. to do an honest man, and his face and fierce look absolutely shattered, how can we work!
100. is not immersed in the illusion and deception are not immersed
to have hallucinations and cheaters are virtuous and wise gentleman, a noble philosopher. but not only on the surface, do not show off your virtue. Philosophy is not respected, although it is the main way the pursuit of wisdom. People are no longer respect the careful science. Seneca put it into Rome, was once the nobles to emulate, but now people feel it is useless, annoying. But hypocrisy is the prudent is not the main factor, but also one of the righteous Pile joy.
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61.
Outstanding career in the noble qualities in perfect, this is the most unusual person. Where heroes, there must be a high quality. Juenan mediocrity to win applause. in a noble cause is different from the mere mortals we can excel, and become the extraordinary transcendence of the characters. In doing menial occupations and no big deal then great: more more results easy, no glory at all the more. the noble cause that you have exceptional style king: Chung cries, people who yearn for.
62. the best person for the use of tools, some people use the
crude tools to want people to think they are equipped with special skills. This is a dangerous their own entertainment, such as by the setback, in fact, reasonable in the matter. as the great king will not have to and diminished by the prime minister. On the contrary , all honor is usually the property of their careers successful mastermind, as things are attributed to the mastermind Zaobai Ji as his default. to fame is the last person who. People never say someone but that person is > If you are really great people, it is still a good first start, which will make you get double benefits. assuming all other things being equal, those who must first be pre-start advantage. Some people could have in their trades in Bainiaozhaofeng like to beat, as they can be chosen to let other people share the first move. preemptive reputation who is the eldest son (by the translator inheritance mm), and then to the second son who is (no inheritance rights mm Translator by), and the like can only be obtained through legal proceedings little thin financial ends meet. No matter how hard the latter, there are always bound to suffer the fate of others ridiculed further. subtle secret of the genius careful not to risk the wrong conditions, always ingenious, ways to open up the success of River Drive. smart people are good at putting in the final to be among the hero of the forest. Some people are reluctant to second-rate ranking first in class is not the time (or: better a chicken's mouth, not the translator mm by ox).
64. try to stay away from trouble to avoid the scourge of sorrow
, both sensible and useful. act will make you remove a lot of trouble be careful, so careful to say is give you Lucky and soothing pleasure of the Nu Xina goddess ①. Do not bring irreparable bad news to others, not themselves received such bad news. Some people hear a lot of sweet flattery, ears have been hard to determine loyalty good; some people due to hear a lot of rumors and nobody knows good and evil; well as portraits of Miss Lida Benitez ② against a poison every day the same thing would be difficult to quiet. In order to get someone else to discuss (even if he is your close friend) for life to please and let their sorrows, nor is it good policy. Though there have been some people for your advice, but he has not bear any risk, so you will not need to please him to take his happiness seriously. When you are happy to give to others means giving yourself up, remember this lesson: Rather than letting your own pain relief after the bear no better to let other people be a little pain now.
65. fun fun to be refined as intelligence
elegant as can be cultivated. Toutou purely on the things known about, you can open your appetite, increase your desire, so if you later find it, will feel joy doubled. see someone to pursue what is, you can judge his talents compete. intelligence higher the greater its goal. mouth wide open big, big bite things also; Mind noble whoever in the lofty cause. In the pure taste and elegant in front, even the most distinguished people in the great can not help but fear, who will lose their most perfect confidence. Few Tai perfectly to the highest things, so you enjoy, do not be too demanding. interesting come and contact with others related. you through constant practice, and finally the formation of the appreciation of your own fun. If you can make on those who enjoy the taste of reaching perfection that is your good fortune . However, they do not claim to what are not satisfied, this is a stupid extreme psychological. If this is for putting on an act of extreme psychological rather than as a natural disposition, is a somewhat hateful. Some people hope that God has created Another perfect world and other things like this to meet their own unrealistic to imagine.
66.
some people act in hospice work to focus on whether compliance is dance act from, qualifying loss to , do not pay attention to whether the final objective to achieve. So, no matter how hard they work, if failed, after all, is to lose face. People always say winning is not required because the winner. Most people do not attach importance to the specific process, only the success of Heroes. as long as you can fulfill its wish to achieve the target, you will get a reputation. regardless of how you use the tool is not a pleasant, well that ends well. If you need to do anything to make things done, then the unscrupulous means precisely true.
67. which line can you get praised for what their merciful the.
rely on most things, good or bad people are satisfied. perfect compliment needed help, like the daring needed spring breeze: Life depends on the breathing. Some of occupation is that everyone likes, but there are some occupations although more important, it is difficult for the ordinary people to notice. The former is obvious to all, everyone likes; the latter is rare, and requires a deeper accomplishments, but unfortunately it was difficult to faint, though respectable and sound can be heard especially in respect. The most famous king of the kings who win, it will be the kings of Aragon Putian praise, because they are prominent Lawrence of conquerors and the battlefield . A great man should prefer the most prestigious occupations, those occupations that everyone understood everyone to engage. If he can win all the praise, he could be immortal fame.
68. to be understood
people understand you more than you people remember you because intelligence is greater than the memory. in the things about the future you should remind people sometimes, and sometimes it should be for their advice. Some people Shique the time is ripe did not do this the right thing, just because they simply forget that. you kindly word of advice, that the stakes. sensitive to the situation and this is only a very great poetry. Once you assign the lack of this before will lose a lot of opportunity for success. Let those who see things the other people out guide to doubt and confusion; for those who see things the lack of people who seek out such wisdom. man should be prudent and careful guide to doubt and confusion, people seeking A guide to interpretation and confusion can also be prudent to point to. If there is scraped guide to the risk of themselves, then particular care should be taken. When the hint is not enough, the best way to show your good taste, and appears to be more open. If the other party has openly say Because you do not have to pursue those things.
69. Do not succumb to the urge to
every great man is not an ordinary little idea what to whom at once tempted. careful self-examination of the heart is: to understand or predict your temperament, the opposite to people's movement and the balanced nature. self-examination begins with self-knowledge. some people mad strange days, patience is always the act, signs of trouble will affect their mood changes. Because of this imbalance at the mercy of a vicious, they work efficiency is always self-contradictory. this mad character excessive thinning will not only destroy their will to combat their common sense, harassment, and understanding of their desires.
70. rejected well-
you can not put everything presented to all the people, give and refuse to be equally important, especially for those orders is that, among the key question is how to reject. and some people refuse to than the other promise but also some valuable: sometimes gilded, . they may afterwards make concessions, but others will not have a good impression on them because they were called were disappointed at the beginning. Do not turn down too much to turn down someone else die, bit by bit to make people feel their disappointment, never Do a complete rebuff to turn down: as a result, people no longer count on you. should always keep a little hope on the finish, making a slight increase in the pain refused to sweet. Even if the abolition of the previous benefits, but also do very polite, even if the compensation is not action, but also may wish to use the number of paying lip service to charge. Do not temper or made to do the delicate care of people
incoherently and perfection in all things related is always consistent, it is at this point shows that he's brilliant. only the fundamental things related causes and stakes can change his behavior. In this matter carefully, capricious is the most taboo. Some people are changing every day, every day, along with their luck changed, their will and understanding Force also followed changes every day. Yesterday they only make concessions, but today turned into regression. They own pollution of its reputation, really makes people confused.
72. error of law enforcement to be decisive
harm might as well do not hesitate to act never harm large. stationary movement of things than things more easily damaged. Some people are always playing mind uncertainty, need someone urges. Many times this is not because they lack clear off, but because they act in drag because they are actually quite clear grasp of the people. can see clearly where the difficulties lie, can be described as smart, but if they are well-taken refuge, is the real smart. while some people will never be hindered by any thing, they with a superb sense and a strong determination. They were born to do a noble cause, they see the truth behind good at making decisions, so that they can easily be successful. They always what it preaches, yet there is something done. their own luck quite sure, they are able to more confidence in the glory.
73. backoff proper way
retreat is a saying cautious people to overcome difficulties coup. Even the most troubled people caught in the maze, they can joke with one of the most elegant escape Enron itself, can be described as a smile off disaster. Gongzha Luo man servicemen greatest source of courage to it. You can say the contrary of what kind he seeks to change the subject.'s most ingenious approach is to pretend that topic is not referred to you, but someone else.
74.
to be with people the most savage of animals live in cities. The lack of self-knowledge is one of those bad habits make it difficult to close. They honor to change the temper. arouses anger at every turn, by no means famous recipe. think of it, these people is nothing more than a morose monster, ready to run wild playing cross and rude. Unfortunately, the servant approached him , as it approached a tiger, scary places with a whip of body. Such people have to seek high groveling, telling anyone holding; now once power in hand, he wanted that every one unhappy to wipe out Old shame. In fact, because of his high now, he should be everyone want to climb up close to the figures, but because of his vanity, while filling all mean rude and shunned him. For such people the most polite punishment is simply not to ignore him. You are like the really wise to put your wisdom to the benefit of others.
75.
to choose heroes for the division as your example of a hero, but you'd better and his race rather than slavishly imitating him. the world with a variety of great men, in their own selected a top figure in the industry as their role model, but not to mechanically follow him, but to more than him. Alexander the tomb of Hector Cornelius latent sadness, but he is not heck Cornelius cry, but cried and cried like heck to stay his missed as made famous by Sri Lanka. everything in the world, but the most famous of others can arouse their overflowing with ambition. others were known as excited to forge ahead in the horn, can make people forget the march out of pure jealousy rise up and do something noble cause.
76. Do not always prudent to joke
cautious The key is that it has serious, seriousness is easier than gimmicks to earn respect. always like joker hard to perfect, and easy to become a laughing stock. We regard him as a liar who will not believe him. the one hand we fear deceived by him, on the other hand are more afraid of being laughed at him. It has never been a good joke to get people who do not know what to say when is serious, then this is almost equal to nothing serious, then he can say. the worst No sense of humor that endless sense of humor too. Some people obtained a reputation for wit, but lost the final so funny. joking around of course, should have, but other times be serious.
77 . adjust ourselves and with others of the right to affordable
be a fickle, words and deeds decent Provincetown Waters. and scholars intersection, conversation should be displayed between the knowledge of their own; and saints intersection, virtuous behavior should appear. This is a wonderful way to get good. because the behavior is similar to easy to feel good, then will be congenial. you should first observe each other's temperament temperament, and then determine how to get along with. whether he is a stern, or a lively and funny, you should do pretty good idea, before sailing boats sailing, the person salute. If you are asking each other, which is even more important. Even if you just want to make a prudent person acting to adjust themselves to suit others is a very useful principles of life. Of course, this is not an ordinary person can do. But on the CMP knowledgeable, interested in a wide range of people, which he did not fall hard.
78. How to do things to explore in the trial of the people always rush
stupid act, because most of them foolhardy. They look to be too simple, not able to anticipate danger, do not worry about the discredited. but cautious people are cautious. they first thought, field trips, and then the line of, to ensure safety. wise people know, although sometimes the fate of God will be spared, but the reckless move doomed to failure. If the depth is unknown, advise you slowly, it may be wide open eyes, ears upright, wary, groping forward, in order to down to earth. In a world, with people everywhere Xianbing. Duochaduosi, it is the best policy.
79.
pleasant personality if unchecked, this will not be a defect, but Health is a big advantage. maybe wit make it even better. to the greatest person can successfully use all grace and humor to win favor. but they were also very careful attention from do not do rude things. Others saw the joke as shortcut out of the woods. Some things should be laughing with them, even those others that are serious business. This will show a considerable degree of plain and easy-going, others will have a wonderful charming effect.
80 . In terms of Bo well-informed to be careful
life, you half to gain knowledge. But things rarely seen in person, the rest have to rely on others to know. Our ears to grasp the truth is a false door front door. Most often depends on seeing the truth, very few rely on what they hear. the eyes and ears in contact with the truth, very little is absolutely genuine, from the so-called truth is far more impure. Once-human transmission, it will always be mixed human communicators emotions. but as long as the role of emotion in the things will be more than a layer of color, so repulsive, or encouraging, so we prefer some kind of impression. higher than the critics sing the praises of those who deserve our attention more. To see through his motive, bias might be, the map takes. to beware of deceptive people and ordinary people often make mistakes.
81. update your brilliant
This is the secret of the Phoenix regeneration. remarkable, after all, become rotten , reputation, after all, do. Over time, the then respect will erode a large, and then to the remarkable achievement of the elderly will also be overcome mediocrity. Thus the courage, talent, happiness and everything else should always be updated. should have the courage to reproduce your brilliant, as the sun, repeated injection dawn. restrained, intended to make people miss double; replay glory, in order to make them applaud.
82. not full-Definitely not perfect all the wise
Mean summed wisdom. had regular errors. squeezed orange juice only bitterness. even if they were not happy to be extreme, abuse of depletion of talent will be imaginative; as a tyrant, like go to the milking, will only get the blood.
83. allow yourself to forgive the fault of reckless behavior
help others see that sometimes the best way you can. jealous person usually presents to the exclusion of the more civilized act of envy, the greater their crimes. The reason why jealousy against perfect, people can not tolerate being in the perfect; people condemn completely perfect. jealous of people into the Argus A Adams, designed to find flaws in a perfect, only for the purpose of masturbation. picky blamed as lightning, always hit the highest places. Precisely because of these reasons, so even Homer, it will inevitably be a failure sparse, so you have to pretend your wisdom or courage, but not prudent mm mm careless mistakes will be made. This malware will calmed down and is no longer toxic foam flying. This is just jealous bull face, you waving red cape to students and to be immortal off.
84. to know how to grab things do not catch the enemy
blade, blade flames; if grasping handle, the knife can be of body. This truth also applies to race. wise men found the usefulness of the enemy than a fool friends found more useful. good faith is afraid of the difficulties Hill, often malicious easily leveled. Many people are great, mostly prompted by their enemies. flattery is more dangerous than hatred, because hatred of the cover to correct the error flattery. cautious eyes from the evil of others to find a mirror. It is more than mirror the true loving, people to reduce or to correct shortcomings. Every man and vicious competitors will get an exception when dealing with the opposite careful.
85. Do not become a license to do
excellent thing liable to abuse. we all coveted in something to easy to its troubles. useless is a bad thing, but all things are beneficial to worse. some people because of their victorious and defeated, as was one immediate desire as being flouted. license this variable exists among all perfect. They lost the first earned a reputation for unique and was ignored for the flat. cure extreme talent when medicine is to show the degree of moderation. should be extremely pursuit perfect, but show to grasp the sense of proportion. torch more light, consume more, continuing the shorter. For a real respect, to be the impression that you are a rare person.
86.
people to stop rumors of a long monster, grows more than double manufacturing malicious eyes, more indiscriminate defamation of the tongue. sometimes thrown up rumors to make the best reputation vanished. If it is the same as the nickname attached to your body, your reputation will be so disappear. people will often highlight the weaknesses or flaws are interested in some silly whispers mm because these are good topics. sometimes jealous of our opponents cunningly fashioned out of thin air these defects. dirty joke out of the mouths of speakers faster than the brazen lies the reputation destroyed. get bad reputation is easy, because the bad thing is easy to believe and difficult to erase. so careful to avoid these people, pay attention to those vulgar and insolent behavior, because prevention is better than treatment sick times.
87.
culture and education and for the life of the Man. culture on people than animals. culture makes us truly human mm more educated, more great people. The Greeks thus view the universe in others as conversations, are required to have cultivated. some people inside and outside of their talent, in their concepts, words and deeds and body accessories (like bark) as well as their spiritual gifts (as fruit) and shows a natural breeding. Another Some people are so vulgar, that is unbearable with their wild dirty stain everything, even smear their good quality.
88. generous to others
aspire to lofty. great man ever not cheap. When talking with others, especially when talking about the unpleasant subject, you do not take into account the various details. pay attention to some things, but a little random. become trivial conversation inquiry is not good. to show a kind of polite, noble generosity. It is a grace, the control of others is a great tips on things to pretend indifference. to learn to ignore in your friends, acquaintances, especially your enemies in large Most things. excessive cautious is undesirable. If this is a part of your character, you will be very annoying. on such unpleasant things to heart then was crazy. to remember that people often act according to nature: the their mind and the ability of the.
89. Meditate your self
clear grasp of character, wisdom, judgments and emotions. If you do not know yourself, you can not control yourself. mirrors can be used according to the face, but , the only way to observe the spirit of their own wise self-reflection. When you no longer worry about their external image, try to amend and improve the internal image. In order to handle matters wisely, you should be careful to accurately estimate and wisdom to determine what will meet your challenges, measuring the depth and wisdom of your.
90. live longer, better life art
there are two things lead to a premature end of life: stupidity and degradation. Some people because they do not know how to save lives and deaths; others it is because do not want to save lives and deaths; as virtue is its own reward and evil is its own punishment. in a life of evil people, he doubly short life; and do good will receive eternal life. spiritual power passed to the body, a better life both good intentions, there are extended.
91.
think twice if a person is doing a piece of When a premonition that something will fail, observers will see this very clearly; when the observer is the enemy, he will see more clearly. when you judge the emotional impulse in the shaken, calm down and find that extremely stupid . When you doubt the wisdom of its time to take one thing is very dangerous. more secure approach is to do nothing. careful not to bet on the possibility, it is always in control, such as Japan and a large reason under; when something was brewing when a cautious condemnation, how it might be a good ending it? even after careful review of the resolution will be adopted unanimously by the error, for those who have been criticized by reason of suspicion and things, what can we expect?
92. in any case must have extraordinary wisdom
This is the demeanor of the highest standards, the higher your position, this criterion becomes necessary. an ounce of care is worth a pound of wisdom. steady progress vulgar applause than winning is more important. prudent reputation is that you can win the highest praise. If you are satisfied that a prudent person, that is enough, he agreed with almost equal success touchstone.
93. generalist
all respects perfect, and many people will be able to match him, he always make fun of life and the joy passed to friends. that life is full of variety and perfection happy. know how to love beautiful things is an art. Since the natural man into the essence of the natural world, let the artistic tastes of people through training and intelligence to be a universal right.
94. unfathomable genius
prudent person who wants the respect of others, then he should not let others see how much wisdom and courage. to let people know you, but do not let them know you; no one can see you're a genius limit and no one was disappointed. Let others guess how much of your genius, or even suspect that your genius, your genius mm than the display of genius, whether you just how great mm also allow you to win other people's worship.
95. to look forward to continue to develop forever
others expect of you, so expect more and more people because of your great achievements and look forward to greater achievements. Do not start to show your everything. conceal your power and knowledge is your trick, you have to slowly move forward to success.
96.
good sense good sense is the rational element, the cornerstone of care with which you can easily succeed . It is a gift, it is the first one, is the best. good sense is our armor, without it, people will say we head not working; without it, we will lose a lot. our life All actions should be relied on in the guidance and approval, because everything depends on the intelligence. it naturally tend to the most appropriate of all the most rational thing.
97. fame and keep your reputation
we like fame, but fame hard to come by, because it arises from excellence, and excellence is rare, it is just as mediocre as usual, once it is, it is easy to maintain. it has to fulfill many promises, it is to make a lot of deeds. It comes from noble birth, if and noble behavior, with a dignified weather. genuine reputation is real and lasting fame.
98. to hide your intentions
passion is the spirit of the door. The most practical knowledge exists in the cover being. flashed their cards may be lost. Do not let other people's concerns over your care and caution. When your opponent is the same as the Bobcats look into your mind, you have to spray like a squid Like Mexico, cover it, do not let anyone find out your intentions, do not let others foresaw it, and do not obstruct others or brag about your wishes.
99.
world of truth and appearance of things, their appearance and truth often different. very few people see through the appearance of truth, most content with superficial appearance. to do an honest man, and his face and fierce look absolutely shattered, how can we work!
100. is not immersed in the illusion and deception are not immersed
to have hallucinations and cheaters are virtuous and wise gentleman, a noble philosopher. but not only on the surface, do not show off your virtue. Philosophy is not respected, although it is the main way the pursuit of wisdom. People are no longer respect the careful science. Seneca put it into Rome, was once the nobles to emulate, but now people feel it is useless, annoying. But hypocrisy is the prudent is not the main factor, but also one of the righteous Pile joy.
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Kai-fu Lee to Chinese students choose the wisdom of the sixth letter
Introduction
I think, for young students, the most important thing is not specific guidelines or methods, but the trade-offs in complex situations of various factors, and the most intelligent way to make the right choice of capacity. I put kinds of capabilities known as The 21st century is the century of a choice, because if future historians look back now, they will remember today the biggest reform is not technical or networks of innovation, but mm human rights will have a choice.
he say this is because in today's information society, everyone can access information, knowledge, relies on brain power to better themselves, everyone has the opportunity, then look at each person's success is even more active in fighting for and the wisdom to choose .
exchanged letters with the students and the founder of moment of confusion often encountered. For example, students often ask me the question about how to choose.
My answer is:
I can help you do not choose their own problems because you only know what is best your own future, and only they are most concerned about.
I can do is teach the wisdom of your choice to help you listen to their mind, the most realistic sound to help you make wise choices.
my choice the wisdom of success and there were 8:
rejected with extreme moderation; a rational analysis of scenarios; make an impact with the pragmatic; with sober control of choice; by conscious correct attitude; gain experience with the study; with the courage to give up the burden; really follow with wisdom.
(a) refuse to use the doctrine of extreme
To avoid and reject the extreme and one-sided.
example, the fifth letter in my proposed initiative, if done to extreme, it becomes a high-handed, like the dictates of others. In my second letter get along with others raised in the most important empathy, if done to extreme, it becomes a blind obedience, nothing not thinking independently. extreme self-confidence to become arrogant, extreme becomes foolhardy courage, the mind is the extreme weak, extremely low self-esteem will become self-reflection.
I have personally experienced an extreme test: in the training courses, so that a circle of 10 vice president, one and a half hours you can speak freely, but only can not speak companies do. So, everyone started talking about the weather, politics, sports disputes have emerged during hh. one and a half hour later, each according to his vice president have in mind respect for other vice president, the degree of order for them to row a and placed himself in the right place. sort, we found: the first is the last person did not speak from beginning to end, last second, then most people. do not speak of people may have ideas, but did not express them, then people would think that he had no opinion. On the contrary, if too many people may have some interesting words, but many should not talk about it, which makes him unable to get all the praise.
Therefore, Gold work, the company has a manager named Sean, we all know he is a very talented, especially in a meeting, he perfectly decent words to show his extraordinary intellect, emotional intelligence and eloquence, enough to the presence of all admiration. One day, I summon the courage to ask for advice on effective communication Sean whereabouts secret. Sean said: When in doubt, my mouth tightly closed; but when I have good advice, I will not miss the opportunity to mm if not let me speak, I will not let the meeting end. If other people are rushing to talk, how do you speak? (such as throat clearing sound), or host with eyes asked me to speak. However, if other people do to occupy all the opportunity to speak, I'll wait spokesman for the adjustment of breathing and quickly connected to the thread of her conversation. : l to r chance to answer him; If not, I would say that l do not know, but I will go check r, and so will finish, I'll definitely check out the problem. mm long as a good grasp of what the degree to speak, choose a good time to talk, you can get the respect of people around.
(b) a rational analysis of scenarios not only emphasizes moderation
keep honest middle, also requires that we choose the good and from.
in the face of choice, we will start with the first go to extremes to avoid the trap of wisdom, and wisdom with the second in a complex, changing environment, prudent and calm and to choose the best solution.
I remember there was a young man asked me: Your boss is a person willing to accept dissent? If not, then you do not mess statement, but you can start looking for a new job and new boss! If he can accept the challenge, then, the boss has not made the final decision, do not be afraid to challenge; but we must take into account, if it is to speak in public, in their own words, there must be some skill, should be concerned that the boss's face. boss once made a decision, we both have different opinions , must be supported and implemented, where there do not agree with the boss can only communicate in private. Zeshanercong way.
the other hand, we can see that leadership also needs Zeshanercong. Many people mistakenly think that good leaders have the same style, for example: command command, the macro control harmonious cooperation, democracy and freedom, authority responsible for mentoring and training.
In fact, the famous management book Six of these seemingly contradictory leadership, and because of the specific situation will be wise to use the right kind of different.
most choice in life is not wrong, black or white, either-or things. We have to learn in the most appropriate time for the most appropriate person with the most appropriate method, to learn to make decisions in a rational overall pros and cons of various factors to measure their abilities and inclinations.
(c) with a pragmatic choice to influence the integrity and balanced
, you must first figure out what you face is that you can affect, or you can not afford to change. Stephen. Covey in his book, Seven Habits high and low level, the problems of life can be divided into three categories:
can directly affect the question: For this problem, the solution lies in the implementation of the correct attitude. This is our mission possible, and it is the core sphere of influence encounter any problems, if you think that the negative and pessimistic state of mind.
fact, encounter problems, you just break it open patiently to see which part is you can influence and what part is you can look but can not influence. Then, to strive for those who can Come and lets you expand your sphere of influence.
So, whether a question is which of the three, the first step to solve the problem should start from their own sphere of influence: first of themselves, no longer affect the others, the last possible impact on the environment.
This method is the sufficient operational.
one student asked me: is trouble. Previously, because I could not understand the practice of certain students, said something in the air behind the words. On one occasion, he even used the terms student cadres in front of me leading a lot of fabricated charges. leadership to implement in the absence of survey dispose of the case to me. fair, because these are already happening, you can not influence, nor change. I advise you to think more, what matters is that you can influence and change. For example, you have not thought about, if you had not speaking ill of him behind, is not all this be avoided? I'm not saying other people are doing right, but you can only amend their own, not fix others. You must know how to modify their only way to avoid this the problem from happening again. If time could go back, you will do better? You will control your emotions, or will it get rid of bad things about the wrong person behind that? l Have you heard how I treat others, they r how to treat me this sentence? If you do not criticize others behind, it is likely that others will not motivate you. There is a saying: l Although we can not change the wind, but we can adjust the sails. r I hope you can clear understanding of life and work where their sails. the fact that after the announcement, much of the media because they were misled into believing that my breach of the contract left to made a number of sub-statements of fact. At that time, thanks to my lawyer friend reminded me: the media reports, we are powerless, because whirlpool case, I personally can not come forward to explain, otherwise not only added insult to injury, and may provide additional materials to each other. The judge's decision is that I can be indirectly affected, and we must strive to fight a good fight. As can be directly side effects of extensive search of evidence that I can look for witnesses, to understand the law, ready to confront the evidence confirmed that the other side lies. Thus, in two months time, I no longer subscribe to the newspaper, not on the news sites, is no longer confused by rumors. I spent 16 hours a day studying hard law, in each other's nearly 30 million documents found in the files we need, and attorneys with the drafting of our defense, court time and again to make rehearsal .9 May appear in court, we really win. It is worth mentioning is that when I return to China to work, I did not spend any effort trying to guide or change the media, media coverage is naturally completely transformed into a positive report. From this example, We can see that: focus on the things you can change, it may not change even when the last thing has changed.
(d) control the decision with calm
life is a continued choice of the game, this one of the most Importantly, we have to use a calm attitude control of the whole process of each choice:
the choice before the think, is to develop objective and precise sense. every important decision you probably closely related to their own future, but you choices and judgments, we must avoid preconceived mind-set, to avoid the tendency of their subjective accurate and objective judgments.
So what to do out of our objective and accurate decisions? I offer three suggestions to you:
First, the list of factors affect your choice as a Table ?
1998 years, I have before me two paths to choose from: Back to the Research Institute of China was founded, the company in the United States to do business. When I asked a lot of friends, , they said: out the pros and cons of a table:
pros and cons of using such a table, I quickly made the decision - back to work in China. because, after considering all pros and cons, back to China to work the best to play my own strengths, and most in line with my personal values and ideals.
Second, learn to look at the issue of probability theory methods.
In most cases, we did not need to believe that a choice must be the probability of success 100% or 0. On the contrary, we should learn to analyze the thing On the other hand, do not wait until it reaches 100% probability of success only to do, because even if a cause of this kind of thing, and nothing to be proud of.
do probability analysis, to list the possible any company established in China as well postgraduate - this is the worst; 40% sure I can make a world-class research institutions - this is the best possible. take into account in this way two extremes, I soon realize that even the worst, I can readily accept and companies.
course, many choices and not so good We need to carefully assess the risk factors, but also at the right time have the courage to challenge yourself. Former U.S. Secretary of State Colin Powell had explained, %, you should do it. Maybe you'll fail, but the cost of delay or waiting is often greater. br> more to seek the views of others is always good. those who are more experienced people can use their many years of accumulation for us the way, the highly intelligent people who can inspire us with their idea of intelligence, those who know how to describe a person can use their emotional intelligence to help us communicate effectively hh
when you ask the views of others, can carry the above-mentioned the other hand, you also avoid subjective influence others described. Of course, you also must understand that the final decision on your own, even if you accepted the views of others, you can not shirk this responsibility to others.
The so-called > For example, some people because of their lack of confidence, each time just to make the decision to immediately tense up, do not know what their choice will lead to results; some people really like take into consideration, but afterwards they regret forever; there are those who are too sensitive, that would have to make their own objective and fair decision, but after hearing others talk to swing hh
fact, both the right and your choice No, regardless of its outcome, the decision has been made can not be recovered, you only readily accept it, or in the future to find ways to remedy the situation. for what has happened, or things they have no control, any concern or remorse are is redundant. Rather than spend time on unnecessary anxiety, these things would be better to br> Chinese saying: understanding of their working life in the community may play a role in a clear positioning.
psychology, the ability to self-knowledge that are referred to as of, understand and correctly assess their qualifications, abilities and limitations, I believe their value and ability areas.
a conscious one can make for themselves the most intelligent choice, choose to do their own competence in job satisfaction can be selected to do the work and so on. a conscious person, neither will their ability to judge is too high, it will not easily underestimate their potential. on their own are often easy to judge too impetuous, aggressive , and others are not good at cooperation in the cause suffered a setback when the psychological gap is relatively large; people underestimate their potential will be over-cautious in their work, hesitant, do not shoulder the burden of responsibility and courage.
I a subordinate, a reads: development, because he lacks the most basic self. Sure enough, he soon made, I do not know his talent, he can not be reused, he decided to go to other departments and find another job. but he eventually found himself not only find more good jobs, the company's colleagues believe he lacks self-knowledge. Finally, he left the company in frustration.
(VI) accumulation of experience with learning
West has a fable, a young man talking to a consult the wisdom of the wise old secret. young man asked: said: very difficult to make the right choice, but the wrong choice time and time again, if you can learn from the lessons learned enough, he can gradually learn the right choice approach, he will naturally become a wise person. Looking back at my life, I can confidently say: I learned from failure much more than I learn from success. So, do not be afraid to fail. Every failure is not punished, but a learning experience.
learning experience is not something done overnight, sometimes long process to go through. In the words of English: headquarters, and found that the department has just taken over the direction of a project on the existing development team and not mm deviation of the user in the first place, and only know of something that seems very research and development projects. At that time, an employee asked me: What assured the project will not be a surprise in the next harvest it? SGI, the leadership team of more than 200 research and development of a three-dimensional walk through the world's most advanced technology. The technology hardware 10 years ago to create a beautiful three dimensional effect. But in doing this project, we did not consider the users and the market needs, developed three-dimensional experience, and not for a particular customer base, but to solve all customer problems. the results of the final product can not use SGI existing marketing channels, products and network hardware requirements are beyond the the capacity of ordinary users, our project was eventually canceled, technology has been sold.
hit it very big for me, because I have more than 200 men need to find a new way, and some people even so unemployed. my heart feels guilty. But on the other hand, I also learned from the painful lessons of the experience enough that I deeply understand: Innovation is important, but useful innovation is more important.
( g) the burden of
with courage to give up new opportunities when the time before us, To give up all that has been obtained, which requires considerable courage. Sometimes, you have not yet found a must give up something you already own, it requires more courage.
a lot of people have problems just do not want to give up what has been reluctant to open up new world. In fact, some things seem worth treasure, but this is often hindered the immediate interests of the more successful you get the source. When the arrival of new opportunities, the courage to give up the things that are not short of success has been obtained, more than halfway, which is to seek new development. If you are brave at the appropriate time should be the wise course, mm to mm to give up already has, but things may become obstacles to progress, you will likely be surprised to find: their own but put aside for a while to wind and rain, but line of sight of the umbrella will hinder their own thus see is extremely broad, extremely magnificent landscape picture!
I have had several The things that turn professional. the other in Carnegie. Mellon University teaching, the giving up of the two years to join Apple. Although I have been to my teacher as a role model, and taught at the world's top honor Department of Computer Science, but most of the time this work into how to get tenure, how to publish and so on. these things could have been a good thing, but these things value to society is not so straightforward. I hope to do some direct something beneficial to the community. So, when Apple, a vice president said to me, the to give up so you do not feel pity? When I see a stick to their ideals and socially responsible company, I found, the creation of Google China is a unique opportunity. So, as I mm has the right to choose I chose Google. I chose to China. I want to do mm influential in China, I can do more to help China's youth, the most influential thing to do. I want to be the best own mm in Google, I can learn new and innovative models through to become the best of themselves. ; is your inner values, ideals and interest. These three together constitute the most realistic of our inner voice.
how to find their own I will use a special read the newspaper, you do have been published as headline news, you will therefore not be ashamed of? will not face their own conscience? If not, you do things worthy of your own values.
The following is a . He wrote a paper 10 years ago, very good, but it was withdrawn after joining the company, stubborn, and working hard, not too many results. He knew that after the crisis facing the teacher asked us to share the hope that I am mindful of the friendships of fellow , let him.
is just another new employees joined the company two months, has not had time performance, but he should be a potential employee.
within my heart ; and do for themselves, ) cold Kai-fu Lee, a classmate of the brothers cut.
Although I do not want to see these two because it violates the basic principle of good faith I am. If I go against the principle of good faith, then I have neither seen the company's leaders face, not qualified to do a professional manager.
So I laid off a senior, Then I told him that in the future if there is any need me, I will try to help.
This is a painful experience, it goes against the very strong in my heart I maximize the impact. this vision has helped me to make many important decisions, such as return to China in 1998 founded Microsoft Research China, in 2005 and decided to join Google, and decided to return to China Venture, these major In fact, all my heart choose to follow the performance: I think my ideal can be achieved better in China.
before the age of 25 college students, they usually face two important choices. First, select the most suited to their profession, The second is to choose the most suitable job. Select the professional time, should not just listen to the views from their parents, nor should look at the size or reputation of the school students sit for the high and low scores. Accordingly, the choice of work can not simply be considered when name, Lee, fashion external factors. I think the most important thing is to listen to your inner voice, in the consolidated balance their ideals, study the accumulation of talent and working conditions, based on making the right choice.
each person's will soon become the world's largest market and the largest centers. There are numerous opportunities waiting for you, as long as you take the initiative to choose with wisdom, success may come at any time to your side!
Related Links:
Replication Lee's letter to Chinese parents
Kai-fu Lee's first letter to Chinese students: from faith about
Kai-fu Lee's second letter to the Chinese students: from good to great
Kai-fu Lee to Chinese students The third letter: successful, confident, happy
Kai-fu Lee's fourth letter to Chinese students: four years of college should be spent this way Kai-fu Lee
the fifth letter to Chinese students: You have the right to choose
I think, for young students, the most important thing is not specific guidelines or methods, but the trade-offs in complex situations of various factors, and the most intelligent way to make the right choice of capacity. I put kinds of capabilities known as The 21st century is the century of a choice, because if future historians look back now, they will remember today the biggest reform is not technical or networks of innovation, but mm human rights will have a choice.
he say this is because in today's information society, everyone can access information, knowledge, relies on brain power to better themselves, everyone has the opportunity, then look at each person's success is even more active in fighting for and the wisdom to choose .
exchanged letters with the students and the founder of moment of confusion often encountered. For example, students often ask me the question about how to choose.
My answer is:
I can help you do not choose their own problems because you only know what is best your own future, and only they are most concerned about.
I can do is teach the wisdom of your choice to help you listen to their mind, the most realistic sound to help you make wise choices.
my choice the wisdom of success and there were 8:
rejected with extreme moderation; a rational analysis of scenarios; make an impact with the pragmatic; with sober control of choice; by conscious correct attitude; gain experience with the study; with the courage to give up the burden; really follow with wisdom.
(a) refuse to use the doctrine of extreme
To avoid and reject the extreme and one-sided.
example, the fifth letter in my proposed initiative, if done to extreme, it becomes a high-handed, like the dictates of others. In my second letter get along with others raised in the most important empathy, if done to extreme, it becomes a blind obedience, nothing not thinking independently. extreme self-confidence to become arrogant, extreme becomes foolhardy courage, the mind is the extreme weak, extremely low self-esteem will become self-reflection.
I have personally experienced an extreme test: in the training courses, so that a circle of 10 vice president, one and a half hours you can speak freely, but only can not speak companies do. So, everyone started talking about the weather, politics, sports disputes have emerged during hh. one and a half hour later, each according to his vice president have in mind respect for other vice president, the degree of order for them to row a and placed himself in the right place. sort, we found: the first is the last person did not speak from beginning to end, last second, then most people. do not speak of people may have ideas, but did not express them, then people would think that he had no opinion. On the contrary, if too many people may have some interesting words, but many should not talk about it, which makes him unable to get all the praise.
Therefore, Gold work, the company has a manager named Sean, we all know he is a very talented, especially in a meeting, he perfectly decent words to show his extraordinary intellect, emotional intelligence and eloquence, enough to the presence of all admiration. One day, I summon the courage to ask for advice on effective communication Sean whereabouts secret. Sean said: When in doubt, my mouth tightly closed; but when I have good advice, I will not miss the opportunity to mm if not let me speak, I will not let the meeting end. If other people are rushing to talk, how do you speak? (such as throat clearing sound), or host with eyes asked me to speak. However, if other people do to occupy all the opportunity to speak, I'll wait spokesman for the adjustment of breathing and quickly connected to the thread of her conversation. : l to r chance to answer him; If not, I would say that l do not know, but I will go check r, and so will finish, I'll definitely check out the problem. mm long as a good grasp of what the degree to speak, choose a good time to talk, you can get the respect of people around.
(b) a rational analysis of scenarios not only emphasizes moderation
keep honest middle, also requires that we choose the good and from.
in the face of choice, we will start with the first go to extremes to avoid the trap of wisdom, and wisdom with the second in a complex, changing environment, prudent and calm and to choose the best solution.
I remember there was a young man asked me: Your boss is a person willing to accept dissent? If not, then you do not mess statement, but you can start looking for a new job and new boss! If he can accept the challenge, then, the boss has not made the final decision, do not be afraid to challenge; but we must take into account, if it is to speak in public, in their own words, there must be some skill, should be concerned that the boss's face. boss once made a decision, we both have different opinions , must be supported and implemented, where there do not agree with the boss can only communicate in private. Zeshanercong way.
the other hand, we can see that leadership also needs Zeshanercong. Many people mistakenly think that good leaders have the same style, for example: command command, the macro control harmonious cooperation, democracy and freedom, authority responsible for mentoring and training.
In fact, the famous management book Six of these seemingly contradictory leadership, and because of the specific situation will be wise to use the right kind of different.
most choice in life is not wrong, black or white, either-or things. We have to learn in the most appropriate time for the most appropriate person with the most appropriate method, to learn to make decisions in a rational overall pros and cons of various factors to measure their abilities and inclinations.
(c) with a pragmatic choice to influence the integrity and balanced
, you must first figure out what you face is that you can affect, or you can not afford to change. Stephen. Covey in his book, Seven Habits high and low level, the problems of life can be divided into three categories:
can directly affect the question: For this problem, the solution lies in the implementation of the correct attitude. This is our mission possible, and it is the core sphere of influence encounter any problems, if you think that the negative and pessimistic state of mind.
fact, encounter problems, you just break it open patiently to see which part is you can influence and what part is you can look but can not influence. Then, to strive for those who can Come and lets you expand your sphere of influence.
So, whether a question is which of the three, the first step to solve the problem should start from their own sphere of influence: first of themselves, no longer affect the others, the last possible impact on the environment.
This method is the sufficient operational.
one student asked me: is trouble. Previously, because I could not understand the practice of certain students, said something in the air behind the words. On one occasion, he even used the terms student cadres in front of me leading a lot of fabricated charges. leadership to implement in the absence of survey dispose of the case to me. fair, because these are already happening, you can not influence, nor change. I advise you to think more, what matters is that you can influence and change. For example, you have not thought about, if you had not speaking ill of him behind, is not all this be avoided? I'm not saying other people are doing right, but you can only amend their own, not fix others. You must know how to modify their only way to avoid this the problem from happening again. If time could go back, you will do better? You will control your emotions, or will it get rid of bad things about the wrong person behind that? l Have you heard how I treat others, they r how to treat me this sentence? If you do not criticize others behind, it is likely that others will not motivate you. There is a saying: l Although we can not change the wind, but we can adjust the sails. r I hope you can clear understanding of life and work where their sails. the fact that after the announcement, much of the media because they were misled into believing that my breach of the contract left to made a number of sub-statements of fact. At that time, thanks to my lawyer friend reminded me: the media reports, we are powerless, because whirlpool case, I personally can not come forward to explain, otherwise not only added insult to injury, and may provide additional materials to each other. The judge's decision is that I can be indirectly affected, and we must strive to fight a good fight. As can be directly side effects of extensive search of evidence that I can look for witnesses, to understand the law, ready to confront the evidence confirmed that the other side lies. Thus, in two months time, I no longer subscribe to the newspaper, not on the news sites, is no longer confused by rumors. I spent 16 hours a day studying hard law, in each other's nearly 30 million documents found in the files we need, and attorneys with the drafting of our defense, court time and again to make rehearsal .9 May appear in court, we really win. It is worth mentioning is that when I return to China to work, I did not spend any effort trying to guide or change the media, media coverage is naturally completely transformed into a positive report. From this example, We can see that: focus on the things you can change, it may not change even when the last thing has changed.
(d) control the decision with calm
life is a continued choice of the game, this one of the most Importantly, we have to use a calm attitude control of the whole process of each choice:
the choice before the think, is to develop objective and precise sense. every important decision you probably closely related to their own future, but you choices and judgments, we must avoid preconceived mind-set, to avoid the tendency of their subjective accurate and objective judgments.
So what to do out of our objective and accurate decisions? I offer three suggestions to you:
First, the list of factors affect your choice as a Table ?
1998 years, I have before me two paths to choose from: Back to the Research Institute of China was founded, the company in the United States to do business. When I asked a lot of friends, , they said: out the pros and cons of a table:
pros and cons of using such a table, I quickly made the decision - back to work in China. because, after considering all pros and cons, back to China to work the best to play my own strengths, and most in line with my personal values and ideals.
Second, learn to look at the issue of probability theory methods.
In most cases, we did not need to believe that a choice must be the probability of success 100% or 0. On the contrary, we should learn to analyze the thing On the other hand, do not wait until it reaches 100% probability of success only to do, because even if a cause of this kind of thing, and nothing to be proud of.
do probability analysis, to list the possible any company established in China as well postgraduate - this is the worst; 40% sure I can make a world-class research institutions - this is the best possible. take into account in this way two extremes, I soon realize that even the worst, I can readily accept and companies.
course, many choices and not so good We need to carefully assess the risk factors, but also at the right time have the courage to challenge yourself. Former U.S. Secretary of State Colin Powell had explained, %, you should do it. Maybe you'll fail, but the cost of delay or waiting is often greater. br> more to seek the views of others is always good. those who are more experienced people can use their many years of accumulation for us the way, the highly intelligent people who can inspire us with their idea of intelligence, those who know how to describe a person can use their emotional intelligence to help us communicate effectively hh
when you ask the views of others, can carry the above-mentioned the other hand, you also avoid subjective influence others described. Of course, you also must understand that the final decision on your own, even if you accepted the views of others, you can not shirk this responsibility to others.
The so-called > For example, some people because of their lack of confidence, each time just to make the decision to immediately tense up, do not know what their choice will lead to results; some people really like take into consideration, but afterwards they regret forever; there are those who are too sensitive, that would have to make their own objective and fair decision, but after hearing others talk to swing hh
fact, both the right and your choice No, regardless of its outcome, the decision has been made can not be recovered, you only readily accept it, or in the future to find ways to remedy the situation. for what has happened, or things they have no control, any concern or remorse are is redundant. Rather than spend time on unnecessary anxiety, these things would be better to br> Chinese saying: understanding of their working life in the community may play a role in a clear positioning.
psychology, the ability to self-knowledge that are referred to as of, understand and correctly assess their qualifications, abilities and limitations, I believe their value and ability areas.
a conscious one can make for themselves the most intelligent choice, choose to do their own competence in job satisfaction can be selected to do the work and so on. a conscious person, neither will their ability to judge is too high, it will not easily underestimate their potential. on their own are often easy to judge too impetuous, aggressive , and others are not good at cooperation in the cause suffered a setback when the psychological gap is relatively large; people underestimate their potential will be over-cautious in their work, hesitant, do not shoulder the burden of responsibility and courage.
I a subordinate, a reads: development, because he lacks the most basic self. Sure enough, he soon made, I do not know his talent, he can not be reused, he decided to go to other departments and find another job. but he eventually found himself not only find more good jobs, the company's colleagues believe he lacks self-knowledge. Finally, he left the company in frustration.
(VI) accumulation of experience with learning
West has a fable, a young man talking to a consult the wisdom of the wise old secret. young man asked: said: very difficult to make the right choice, but the wrong choice time and time again, if you can learn from the lessons learned enough, he can gradually learn the right choice approach, he will naturally become a wise person. Looking back at my life, I can confidently say: I learned from failure much more than I learn from success. So, do not be afraid to fail. Every failure is not punished, but a learning experience.
learning experience is not something done overnight, sometimes long process to go through. In the words of English: headquarters, and found that the department has just taken over the direction of a project on the existing development team and not mm deviation of the user in the first place, and only know of something that seems very research and development projects. At that time, an employee asked me: What assured the project will not be a surprise in the next harvest it? SGI, the leadership team of more than 200 research and development of a three-dimensional walk through the world's most advanced technology. The technology hardware 10 years ago to create a beautiful three dimensional effect. But in doing this project, we did not consider the users and the market needs, developed three-dimensional experience, and not for a particular customer base, but to solve all customer problems. the results of the final product can not use SGI existing marketing channels, products and network hardware requirements are beyond the the capacity of ordinary users, our project was eventually canceled, technology has been sold.
hit it very big for me, because I have more than 200 men need to find a new way, and some people even so unemployed. my heart feels guilty. But on the other hand, I also learned from the painful lessons of the experience enough that I deeply understand: Innovation is important, but useful innovation is more important.
( g) the burden of
with courage to give up new opportunities when the time before us, To give up all that has been obtained, which requires considerable courage. Sometimes, you have not yet found a must give up something you already own, it requires more courage.
a lot of people have problems just do not want to give up what has been reluctant to open up new world. In fact, some things seem worth treasure, but this is often hindered the immediate interests of the more successful you get the source. When the arrival of new opportunities, the courage to give up the things that are not short of success has been obtained, more than halfway, which is to seek new development. If you are brave at the appropriate time should be the wise course, mm to mm to give up already has, but things may become obstacles to progress, you will likely be surprised to find: their own but put aside for a while to wind and rain, but line of sight of the umbrella will hinder their own thus see is extremely broad, extremely magnificent landscape picture!
I have had several The things that turn professional. the other in Carnegie. Mellon University teaching, the giving up of the two years to join Apple. Although I have been to my teacher as a role model, and taught at the world's top honor Department of Computer Science, but most of the time this work into how to get tenure, how to publish and so on. these things could have been a good thing, but these things value to society is not so straightforward. I hope to do some direct something beneficial to the community. So, when Apple, a vice president said to me, the to give up so you do not feel pity? When I see a stick to their ideals and socially responsible company, I found, the creation of Google China is a unique opportunity. So, as I mm has the right to choose I chose Google. I chose to China. I want to do mm influential in China, I can do more to help China's youth, the most influential thing to do. I want to be the best own mm in Google, I can learn new and innovative models through to become the best of themselves. ; is your inner values, ideals and interest. These three together constitute the most realistic of our inner voice.
how to find their own I will use a special read the newspaper, you do have been published as headline news, you will therefore not be ashamed of? will not face their own conscience? If not, you do things worthy of your own values.
The following is a . He wrote a paper 10 years ago, very good, but it was withdrawn after joining the company, stubborn, and working hard, not too many results. He knew that after the crisis facing the teacher asked us to share the hope that I am mindful of the friendships of fellow , let him.
is just another new employees joined the company two months, has not had time performance, but he should be a potential employee.
within my heart ; and do for themselves, ) cold Kai-fu Lee, a classmate of the brothers cut.
Although I do not want to see these two because it violates the basic principle of good faith I am. If I go against the principle of good faith, then I have neither seen the company's leaders face, not qualified to do a professional manager.
So I laid off a senior, Then I told him that in the future if there is any need me, I will try to help.
This is a painful experience, it goes against the very strong in my heart I maximize the impact. this vision has helped me to make many important decisions, such as return to China in 1998 founded Microsoft Research China, in 2005 and decided to join Google, and decided to return to China Venture, these major In fact, all my heart choose to follow the performance: I think my ideal can be achieved better in China.
before the age of 25 college students, they usually face two important choices. First, select the most suited to their profession, The second is to choose the most suitable job. Select the professional time, should not just listen to the views from their parents, nor should look at the size or reputation of the school students sit for the high and low scores. Accordingly, the choice of work can not simply be considered when name, Lee, fashion external factors. I think the most important thing is to listen to your inner voice, in the consolidated balance their ideals, study the accumulation of talent and working conditions, based on making the right choice.
each person's will soon become the world's largest market and the largest centers. There are numerous opportunities waiting for you, as long as you take the initiative to choose with wisdom, success may come at any time to your side!
Related Links:
Replication Lee's letter to Chinese parents
Kai-fu Lee's first letter to Chinese students: from faith about
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Tuesday, February 8, 2011
The first four banks lending interest rate concessions or suite will be fully canceled
Small banks have been following the previous
canceled after the first suite prime rate loans, recently, the four major banks have begun lending suite on the first knife, the first prime rate loans suites facing the fate abolished. First came news of Beijing, ICBC has been in Beijing since 28 started the implementation of the New Deal mortgage, interest rate loan to cancel the first suite offers. Insiders said the estimated long, the market will fully students changed.
It is understood that in Beijing, ICBC is the first suite for buying second-hand housing, in principle, are in accordance with the implementation of the benchmark interest rate, eliminating the preferential rate to float downward earlier; to buy a new house, real estate developers in development loans ICBC received, the first suite of real estate can perform the benchmark interest rate a loan, in accordance with the implementation of a minimum of 8.5 fold. There will be some flexibility in the specific implementation, such as VIP customers may have some interest rate concessions. Part of ICBC branch in Guangzhou, said the credit department staff, for the first suites loans, current interest rates still fall a minimum of 15%, but the policy at any time may be changed.
Previously, Shanghai Pudong Development Bank, China Everbright Bank and China Minsheng Bank in the Beijing area have been stopped the first suite loan interest rate concessions. Guangzhou Cheng Lu Zhiguang, general manager of mortgage companies to disclose race, said the Guangzhou market, small and medium banks almost complete abolition of the preferential interest rate loans first suite. Last week, the broad issue that the implementation of the benchmark interest rate on the first suite; deep development issued a notice that the credit for the first suites interest rates go up 10% of the implementation of the New Deal. Although a few banks that did not clear the first suite to cancel preferential interest rate loans, but has rarely give credit interest rate to float downward in the first suite, and some banks even though the book has been awarded the same credit, but that changed on a whim, so the basic mortgage companies do not apply to small and medium banks loan of the first suite.
Lu Zhiguang said after the four major banks who did not dare stand up to do the first one, so the maximum credit can still get the first suite to fall 15% of the preferential interest rates, but lending rates to fall out of the first suite very little.
Lu Zhiguang said that although the bank did not explicitly said it would cancel the first suite of prime rate loans, but has been interested in the benchmark interest rate to guide the customer to the estimated long, the market has changed we must comprehensively, and as long as there where a large First-line stand, other banks will soon follow.
canceled after the first suite prime rate loans, recently, the four major banks have begun lending suite on the first knife, the first prime rate loans suites facing the fate abolished. First came news of Beijing, ICBC has been in Beijing since 28 started the implementation of the New Deal mortgage, interest rate loan to cancel the first suite offers. Insiders said the estimated long, the market will fully students changed.
It is understood that in Beijing, ICBC is the first suite for buying second-hand housing, in principle, are in accordance with the implementation of the benchmark interest rate, eliminating the preferential rate to float downward earlier; to buy a new house, real estate developers in development loans ICBC received, the first suite of real estate can perform the benchmark interest rate a loan, in accordance with the implementation of a minimum of 8.5 fold. There will be some flexibility in the specific implementation, such as VIP customers may have some interest rate concessions. Part of ICBC branch in Guangzhou, said the credit department staff, for the first suites loans, current interest rates still fall a minimum of 15%, but the policy at any time may be changed.
Previously, Shanghai Pudong Development Bank, China Everbright Bank and China Minsheng Bank in the Beijing area have been stopped the first suite loan interest rate concessions. Guangzhou Cheng Lu Zhiguang, general manager of mortgage companies to disclose race, said the Guangzhou market, small and medium banks almost complete abolition of the preferential interest rate loans first suite. Last week, the broad issue that the implementation of the benchmark interest rate on the first suite; deep development issued a notice that the credit for the first suites interest rates go up 10% of the implementation of the New Deal. Although a few banks that did not clear the first suite to cancel preferential interest rate loans, but has rarely give credit interest rate to float downward in the first suite, and some banks even though the book has been awarded the same credit, but that changed on a whim, so the basic mortgage companies do not apply to small and medium banks loan of the first suite.
Lu Zhiguang said after the four major banks who did not dare stand up to do the first one, so the maximum credit can still get the first suite to fall 15% of the preferential interest rates, but lending rates to fall out of the first suite very little.
Lu Zhiguang said that although the bank did not explicitly said it would cancel the first suite of prime rate loans, but has been interested in the benchmark interest rate to guide the customer to the estimated long, the market has changed we must comprehensively, and as long as there where a large First-line stand, other banks will soon follow.
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