Thursday, February 10, 2011

A life wisdom 300 (c)

 A life wisdom 300 (c)
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61.
Outstanding career in the noble qualities in perfect, this is the most unusual person. Where heroes, there must be a high quality. Juenan mediocrity to win applause. in a noble cause is different from the mere mortals we can excel, and become the extraordinary transcendence of the characters. In doing menial occupations and no big deal then great: more more results easy, no glory at all the more. the noble cause that you have exceptional style king: Chung cries, people who yearn for.
62. the best person for the use of tools, some people use the
crude tools to want people to think they are equipped with special skills. This is a dangerous their own entertainment, such as by the setback, in fact, reasonable in the matter. as the great king will not have to and diminished by the prime minister. On the contrary , all honor is usually the property of their careers successful mastermind, as things are attributed to the mastermind Zaobai Ji as his default. to fame is the last person who. People never say someone but that person is > If you are really great people, it is still a good first start, which will make you get double benefits. assuming all other things being equal, those who must first be pre-start advantage. Some people could have in their trades in Bainiaozhaofeng like to beat, as they can be chosen to let other people share the first move. preemptive reputation who is the eldest son (by the translator inheritance mm), and then to the second son who is (no inheritance rights mm Translator by), and the like can only be obtained through legal proceedings little thin financial ends meet. No matter how hard the latter, there are always bound to suffer the fate of others ridiculed further. subtle secret of the genius careful not to risk the wrong conditions, always ingenious, ways to open up the success of River Drive. smart people are good at putting in the final to be among the hero of the forest. Some people are reluctant to second-rate ranking first in class is not the time (or: better a chicken's mouth, not the translator mm by ox).
64. try to stay away from trouble to avoid the scourge of sorrow
, both sensible and useful. act will make you remove a lot of trouble be careful, so careful to say is give you Lucky and soothing pleasure of the Nu Xina goddess ①. Do not bring irreparable bad news to others, not themselves received such bad news. Some people hear a lot of sweet flattery, ears have been hard to determine loyalty good; some people due to hear a lot of rumors and nobody knows good and evil; well as portraits of Miss Lida Benitez ② against a poison every day the same thing would be difficult to quiet. In order to get someone else to discuss (even if he is your close friend) for life to please and let their sorrows, nor is it good policy. Though there have been some people for your advice, but he has not bear any risk, so you will not need to please him to take his happiness seriously. When you are happy to give to others means giving yourself up, remember this lesson: Rather than letting your own pain relief after the bear no better to let other people be a little pain now.
65. fun fun to be refined as intelligence
elegant as can be cultivated. Toutou purely on the things known about, you can open your appetite, increase your desire, so if you later find it, will feel joy doubled. see someone to pursue what is, you can judge his talents compete. intelligence higher the greater its goal. mouth wide open big, big bite things also; Mind noble whoever in the lofty cause. In the pure taste and elegant in front, even the most distinguished people in the great can not help but fear, who will lose their most perfect confidence. Few Tai perfectly to the highest things, so you enjoy, do not be too demanding. interesting come and contact with others related. you through constant practice, and finally the formation of the appreciation of your own fun. If you can make on those who enjoy the taste of reaching perfection that is your good fortune . However, they do not claim to what are not satisfied, this is a stupid extreme psychological. If this is for putting on an act of extreme psychological rather than as a natural disposition, is a somewhat hateful. Some people hope that God has created Another perfect world and other things like this to meet their own unrealistic to imagine.
66.
some people act in hospice work to focus on whether compliance is dance act from, qualifying loss to , do not pay attention to whether the final objective to achieve. So, no matter how hard they work, if failed, after all, is to lose face. People always say winning is not required because the winner. Most people do not attach importance to the specific process, only the success of Heroes. as long as you can fulfill its wish to achieve the target, you will get a reputation. regardless of how you use the tool is not a pleasant, well that ends well. If you need to do anything to make things done, then the unscrupulous means precisely true.
67. which line can you get praised for what their merciful the.
rely on most things, good or bad people are satisfied. perfect compliment needed help, like the daring needed spring breeze: Life depends on the breathing. Some of occupation is that everyone likes, but there are some occupations although more important, it is difficult for the ordinary people to notice. The former is obvious to all, everyone likes; the latter is rare, and requires a deeper accomplishments, but unfortunately it was difficult to faint, though respectable and sound can be heard especially in respect. The most famous king of the kings who win, it will be the kings of Aragon Putian praise, because they are prominent Lawrence of conquerors and the battlefield . A great man should prefer the most prestigious occupations, those occupations that everyone understood everyone to engage. If he can win all the praise, he could be immortal fame.
68. to be understood
people understand you more than you people remember you because intelligence is greater than the memory. in the things about the future you should remind people sometimes, and sometimes it should be for their advice. Some people Shique the time is ripe did not do this the right thing, just because they simply forget that. you kindly word of advice, that the stakes. sensitive to the situation and this is only a very great poetry. Once you assign the lack of this before will lose a lot of opportunity for success. Let those who see things the other people out guide to doubt and confusion; for those who see things the lack of people who seek out such wisdom. man should be prudent and careful guide to doubt and confusion, people seeking A guide to interpretation and confusion can also be prudent to point to. If there is scraped guide to the risk of themselves, then particular care should be taken. When the hint is not enough, the best way to show your good taste, and appears to be more open. If the other party has openly say Because you do not have to pursue those things.
69. Do not succumb to the urge to
every great man is not an ordinary little idea what to whom at once tempted. careful self-examination of the heart is: to understand or predict your temperament, the opposite to people's movement and the balanced nature. self-examination begins with self-knowledge. some people mad strange days, patience is always the act, signs of trouble will affect their mood changes. Because of this imbalance at the mercy of a vicious, they work efficiency is always self-contradictory. this mad character excessive thinning will not only destroy their will to combat their common sense, harassment, and understanding of their desires.
70. rejected well-
you can not put everything presented to all the people, give and refuse to be equally important, especially for those orders is that, among the key question is how to reject. and some people refuse to than the other promise but also some valuable: sometimes gilded, . they may afterwards make concessions, but others will not have a good impression on them because they were called were disappointed at the beginning. Do not turn down too much to turn down someone else die, bit by bit to make people feel their disappointment, never Do a complete rebuff to turn down: as a result, people no longer count on you. should always keep a little hope on the finish, making a slight increase in the pain refused to sweet. Even if the abolition of the previous benefits, but also do very polite, even if the compensation is not action, but also may wish to use the number of paying lip service to charge. Do not temper or made to do the delicate care of people
incoherently and perfection in all things related is always consistent, it is at this point shows that he's brilliant. only the fundamental things related causes and stakes can change his behavior. In this matter carefully, capricious is the most taboo. Some people are changing every day, every day, along with their luck changed, their will and understanding Force also followed changes every day. Yesterday they only make concessions, but today turned into regression. They own pollution of its reputation, really makes people confused.
72. error of law enforcement to be decisive
harm might as well do not hesitate to act never harm large. stationary movement of things than things more easily damaged. Some people are always playing mind uncertainty, need someone urges. Many times this is not because they lack clear off, but because they act in drag because they are actually quite clear grasp of the people. can see clearly where the difficulties lie, can be described as smart, but if they are well-taken refuge, is the real smart. while some people will never be hindered by any thing, they with a superb sense and a strong determination. They were born to do a noble cause, they see the truth behind good at making decisions, so that they can easily be successful. They always what it preaches, yet there is something done. their own luck quite sure, they are able to more confidence in the glory.
73. backoff proper way
retreat is a saying cautious people to overcome difficulties coup. Even the most troubled people caught in the maze, they can joke with one of the most elegant escape Enron itself, can be described as a smile off disaster. Gongzha Luo man servicemen greatest source of courage to it. You can say the contrary of what kind he seeks to change the subject.'s most ingenious approach is to pretend that topic is not referred to you, but someone else.
74.
to be with people the most savage of animals live in cities. The lack of self-knowledge is one of those bad habits make it difficult to close. They honor to change the temper. arouses anger at every turn, by no means famous recipe. think of it, these people is nothing more than a morose monster, ready to run wild playing cross and rude. Unfortunately, the servant approached him , as it approached a tiger, scary places with a whip of body. Such people have to seek high groveling, telling anyone holding; now once power in hand, he wanted that every one unhappy to wipe out Old shame. In fact, because of his high now, he should be everyone want to climb up close to the figures, but because of his vanity, while filling all mean rude and shunned him. For such people the most polite punishment is simply not to ignore him. You are like the really wise to put your wisdom to the benefit of others.
75.
to choose heroes for the division as your example of a hero, but you'd better and his race rather than slavishly imitating him. the world with a variety of great men, in their own selected a top figure in the industry as their role model, but not to mechanically follow him, but to more than him. Alexander the tomb of Hector Cornelius latent sadness, but he is not heck Cornelius cry, but cried and cried like heck to stay his missed as made famous by Sri Lanka. everything in the world, but the most famous of others can arouse their overflowing with ambition. others were known as excited to forge ahead in the horn, can make people forget the march out of pure jealousy rise up and do something noble cause.
76. Do not always prudent to joke
cautious The key is that it has serious, seriousness is easier than gimmicks to earn respect. always like joker hard to perfect, and easy to become a laughing stock. We regard him as a liar who will not believe him. the one hand we fear deceived by him, on the other hand are more afraid of being laughed at him. It has never been a good joke to get people who do not know what to say when is serious, then this is almost equal to nothing serious, then he can say. the worst No sense of humor that endless sense of humor too. Some people obtained a reputation for wit, but lost the final so funny. joking around of course, should have, but other times be serious.
77 . adjust ourselves and with others of the right to affordable
be a fickle, words and deeds decent Provincetown Waters. and scholars intersection, conversation should be displayed between the knowledge of their own; and saints intersection, virtuous behavior should appear. This is a wonderful way to get good. because the behavior is similar to easy to feel good, then will be congenial. you should first observe each other's temperament temperament, and then determine how to get along with. whether he is a stern, or a lively and funny, you should do pretty good idea, before sailing boats sailing, the person salute. If you are asking each other, which is even more important. Even if you just want to make a prudent person acting to adjust themselves to suit others is a very useful principles of life. Of course, this is not an ordinary person can do. But on the CMP knowledgeable, interested in a wide range of people, which he did not fall hard.
78. How to do things to explore in the trial of the people always rush
stupid act, because most of them foolhardy. They look to be too simple, not able to anticipate danger, do not worry about the discredited. but cautious people are cautious. they first thought, field trips, and then the line of, to ensure safety. wise people know, although sometimes the fate of God will be spared, but the reckless move doomed to failure. If the depth is unknown, advise you slowly, it may be wide open eyes, ears upright, wary, groping forward, in order to down to earth. In a world, with people everywhere Xianbing. Duochaduosi, it is the best policy.
79.
pleasant personality if unchecked, this will not be a defect, but Health is a big advantage. maybe wit make it even better. to the greatest person can successfully use all grace and humor to win favor. but they were also very careful attention from do not do rude things. Others saw the joke as shortcut out of the woods. Some things should be laughing with them, even those others that are serious business. This will show a considerable degree of plain and easy-going, others will have a wonderful charming effect.
80 . In terms of Bo well-informed to be careful
life, you half to gain knowledge. But things rarely seen in person, the rest have to rely on others to know. Our ears to grasp the truth is a false door front door. Most often depends on seeing the truth, very few rely on what they hear. the eyes and ears in contact with the truth, very little is absolutely genuine, from the so-called truth is far more impure. Once-human transmission, it will always be mixed human communicators emotions. but as long as the role of emotion in the things will be more than a layer of color, so repulsive, or encouraging, so we prefer some kind of impression. higher than the critics sing the praises of those who deserve our attention more. To see through his motive, bias might be, the map takes. to beware of deceptive people and ordinary people often make mistakes.
81. update your brilliant
This is the secret of the Phoenix regeneration. remarkable, after all, become rotten , reputation, after all, do. Over time, the then respect will erode a large, and then to the remarkable achievement of the elderly will also be overcome mediocrity. Thus the courage, talent, happiness and everything else should always be updated. should have the courage to reproduce your brilliant, as the sun, repeated injection dawn. restrained, intended to make people miss double; replay glory, in order to make them applaud.
82. not full-Definitely not perfect all the wise
Mean summed wisdom. had regular errors. squeezed orange juice only bitterness. even if they were not happy to be extreme, abuse of depletion of talent will be imaginative; as a tyrant, like go to the milking, will only get the blood.
83. allow yourself to forgive the fault of reckless behavior
help others see that sometimes the best way you can. jealous person usually presents to the exclusion of the more civilized act of envy, the greater their crimes. The reason why jealousy against perfect, people can not tolerate being in the perfect; people condemn completely perfect. jealous of people into the Argus A Adams, designed to find flaws in a perfect, only for the purpose of masturbation. picky blamed as lightning, always hit the highest places. Precisely because of these reasons, so even Homer, it will inevitably be a failure sparse, so you have to pretend your wisdom or courage, but not prudent mm mm careless mistakes will be made. This malware will calmed down and is no longer toxic foam flying. This is just jealous bull face, you waving red cape to students and to be immortal off.
84. to know how to grab things do not catch the enemy
blade, blade flames; if grasping handle, the knife can be of body. This truth also applies to race. wise men found the usefulness of the enemy than a fool friends found more useful. good faith is afraid of the difficulties Hill, often malicious easily leveled. Many people are great, mostly prompted by their enemies. flattery is more dangerous than hatred, because hatred of the cover to correct the error flattery. cautious eyes from the evil of others to find a mirror. It is more than mirror the true loving, people to reduce or to correct shortcomings. Every man and vicious competitors will get an exception when dealing with the opposite careful.
85. Do not become a license to do
excellent thing liable to abuse. we all coveted in something to easy to its troubles. useless is a bad thing, but all things are beneficial to worse. some people because of their victorious and defeated, as was one immediate desire as being flouted. license this variable exists among all perfect. They lost the first earned a reputation for unique and was ignored for the flat. cure extreme talent when medicine is to show the degree of moderation. should be extremely pursuit perfect, but show to grasp the sense of proportion. torch more light, consume more, continuing the shorter. For a real respect, to be the impression that you are a rare person.
86.
people to stop rumors of a long monster, grows more than double manufacturing malicious eyes, more indiscriminate defamation of the tongue. sometimes thrown up rumors to make the best reputation vanished. If it is the same as the nickname attached to your body, your reputation will be so disappear. people will often highlight the weaknesses or flaws are interested in some silly whispers mm because these are good topics. sometimes jealous of our opponents cunningly fashioned out of thin air these defects. dirty joke out of the mouths of speakers faster than the brazen lies the reputation destroyed. get bad reputation is easy, because the bad thing is easy to believe and difficult to erase. so careful to avoid these people, pay attention to those vulgar and insolent behavior, because prevention is better than treatment sick times.
87.
culture and education and for the life of the Man. culture on people than animals. culture makes us truly human mm more educated, more great people. The Greeks thus view the universe in others as conversations, are required to have cultivated. some people inside and outside of their talent, in their concepts, words and deeds and body accessories (like bark) as well as their spiritual gifts (as fruit) and shows a natural breeding. Another Some people are so vulgar, that is unbearable with their wild dirty stain everything, even smear their good quality.
88. generous to others
aspire to lofty. great man ever not cheap. When talking with others, especially when talking about the unpleasant subject, you do not take into account the various details. pay attention to some things, but a little random. become trivial conversation inquiry is not good. to show a kind of polite, noble generosity. It is a grace, the control of others is a great tips on things to pretend indifference. to learn to ignore in your friends, acquaintances, especially your enemies in large Most things. excessive cautious is undesirable. If this is a part of your character, you will be very annoying. on such unpleasant things to heart then was crazy. to remember that people often act according to nature: the their mind and the ability of the.
89. Meditate your self
clear grasp of character, wisdom, judgments and emotions. If you do not know yourself, you can not control yourself. mirrors can be used according to the face, but , the only way to observe the spirit of their own wise self-reflection. When you no longer worry about their external image, try to amend and improve the internal image. In order to handle matters wisely, you should be careful to accurately estimate and wisdom to determine what will meet your challenges, measuring the depth and wisdom of your.
90. live longer, better life art
there are two things lead to a premature end of life: stupidity and degradation. Some people because they do not know how to save lives and deaths; others it is because do not want to save lives and deaths; as virtue is its own reward and evil is its own punishment. in a life of evil people, he doubly short life; and do good will receive eternal life. spiritual power passed to the body, a better life both good intentions, there are extended.
91.
think twice if a person is doing a piece of When a premonition that something will fail, observers will see this very clearly; when the observer is the enemy, he will see more clearly. when you judge the emotional impulse in the shaken, calm down and find that extremely stupid . When you doubt the wisdom of its time to take one thing is very dangerous. more secure approach is to do nothing. careful not to bet on the possibility, it is always in control, such as Japan and a large reason under; when something was brewing when a cautious condemnation, how it might be a good ending it? even after careful review of the resolution will be adopted unanimously by the error, for those who have been criticized by reason of suspicion and things, what can we expect?
92. in any case must have extraordinary wisdom
This is the demeanor of the highest standards, the higher your position, this criterion becomes necessary. an ounce of care is worth a pound of wisdom. steady progress vulgar applause than winning is more important. prudent reputation is that you can win the highest praise. If you are satisfied that a prudent person, that is enough, he agreed with almost equal success touchstone.
93. generalist
all respects perfect, and many people will be able to match him, he always make fun of life and the joy passed to friends. that life is full of variety and perfection happy. know how to love beautiful things is an art. Since the natural man into the essence of the natural world, let the artistic tastes of people through training and intelligence to be a universal right.
94. unfathomable genius
prudent person who wants the respect of others, then he should not let others see how much wisdom and courage. to let people know you, but do not let them know you; no one can see you're a genius limit and no one was disappointed. Let others guess how much of your genius, or even suspect that your genius, your genius mm than the display of genius, whether you just how great mm also allow you to win other people's worship.
95. to look forward to continue to develop forever
others expect of you, so expect more and more people because of your great achievements and look forward to greater achievements. Do not start to show your everything. conceal your power and knowledge is your trick, you have to slowly move forward to success.
96.
good sense good sense is the rational element, the cornerstone of care with which you can easily succeed . It is a gift, it is the first one, is the best. good sense is our armor, without it, people will say we head not working; without it, we will lose a lot. our life All actions should be relied on in the guidance and approval, because everything depends on the intelligence. it naturally tend to the most appropriate of all the most rational thing.
97. fame and keep your reputation
we like fame, but fame hard to come by, because it arises from excellence, and excellence is rare, it is just as mediocre as usual, once it is, it is easy to maintain. it has to fulfill many promises, it is to make a lot of deeds. It comes from noble birth, if and noble behavior, with a dignified weather. genuine reputation is real and lasting fame.
98. to hide your intentions
passion is the spirit of the door. The most practical knowledge exists in the cover being. flashed their cards may be lost. Do not let other people's concerns over your care and caution. When your opponent is the same as the Bobcats look into your mind, you have to spray like a squid Like Mexico, cover it, do not let anyone find out your intentions, do not let others foresaw it, and do not obstruct others or brag about your wishes.
99.
world of truth and appearance of things, their appearance and truth often different. very few people see through the appearance of truth, most content with superficial appearance. to do an honest man, and his face and fierce look absolutely shattered, how can we work!
100. is not immersed in the illusion and deception are not immersed
to have hallucinations and cheaters are virtuous and wise gentleman, a noble philosopher. but not only on the surface, do not show off your virtue. Philosophy is not respected, although it is the main way the pursuit of wisdom. People are no longer respect the careful science. Seneca put it into Rome, was once the nobles to emulate, but now people feel it is useless, annoying. But hypocrisy is the prudent is not the main factor, but also one of the righteous Pile joy.

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Kai-fu Lee to Chinese students choose the wisdom of the sixth letter

 Introduction
I think, for young students, the most important thing is not specific guidelines or methods, but the trade-offs in complex situations of various factors, and the most intelligent way to make the right choice of capacity. I put kinds of capabilities known as The 21st century is the century of a choice, because if future historians look back now, they will remember today the biggest reform is not technical or networks of innovation, but mm human rights will have a choice.
he say this is because in today's information society, everyone can access information, knowledge, relies on brain power to better themselves, everyone has the opportunity, then look at each person's success is even more active in fighting for and the wisdom to choose .
exchanged letters with the students and the founder of moment of confusion often encountered. For example, students often ask me the question about how to choose.
My answer is:
I can help you do not choose their own problems because you only know what is best your own future, and only they are most concerned about.
I can do is teach the wisdom of your choice to help you listen to their mind, the most realistic sound to help you make wise choices.
my choice the wisdom of success and there were 8:
rejected with extreme moderation; a rational analysis of scenarios; make an impact with the pragmatic; with sober control of choice; by conscious correct attitude; gain experience with the study; with the courage to give up the burden; really follow with wisdom.
(a) refuse to use the doctrine of extreme
To avoid and reject the extreme and one-sided.
example, the fifth letter in my proposed initiative, if done to extreme, it becomes a high-handed, like the dictates of others. In my second letter get along with others raised in the most important empathy, if done to extreme, it becomes a blind obedience, nothing not thinking independently. extreme self-confidence to become arrogant, extreme becomes foolhardy courage, the mind is the extreme weak, extremely low self-esteem will become self-reflection.
I have personally experienced an extreme test: in the training courses, so that a circle of 10 vice president, one and a half hours you can speak freely, but only can not speak companies do. So, everyone started talking about the weather, politics, sports disputes have emerged during hh. one and a half hour later, each according to his vice president have in mind respect for other vice president, the degree of order for them to row a and placed himself in the right place. sort, we found: the first is the last person did not speak from beginning to end, last second, then most people. do not speak of people may have ideas, but did not express them, then people would think that he had no opinion. On the contrary, if too many people may have some interesting words, but many should not talk about it, which makes him unable to get all the praise.
Therefore, Gold work, the company has a manager named Sean, we all know he is a very talented, especially in a meeting, he perfectly decent words to show his extraordinary intellect, emotional intelligence and eloquence, enough to the presence of all admiration. One day, I summon the courage to ask for advice on effective communication Sean whereabouts secret. Sean said: When in doubt, my mouth tightly closed; but when I have good advice, I will not miss the opportunity to mm if not let me speak, I will not let the meeting end. If other people are rushing to talk, how do you speak? (such as throat clearing sound), or host with eyes asked me to speak. However, if other people do to occupy all the opportunity to speak, I'll wait spokesman for the adjustment of breathing and quickly connected to the thread of her conversation. : l to r chance to answer him; If not, I would say that l do not know, but I will go check r, and so will finish, I'll definitely check out the problem. mm long as a good grasp of what the degree to speak, choose a good time to talk, you can get the respect of people around.
(b) a rational analysis of scenarios not only emphasizes moderation
keep honest middle, also requires that we choose the good and from.
in the face of choice, we will start with the first go to extremes to avoid the trap of wisdom, and wisdom with the second in a complex, changing environment, prudent and calm and to choose the best solution.
I remember there was a young man asked me: Your boss is a person willing to accept dissent? If not, then you do not mess statement, but you can start looking for a new job and new boss! If he can accept the challenge, then, the boss has not made the final decision, do not be afraid to challenge; but we must take into account, if it is to speak in public, in their own words, there must be some skill, should be concerned that the boss's face. boss once made a decision, we both have different opinions , must be supported and implemented, where there do not agree with the boss can only communicate in private. Zeshanercong way.
the other hand, we can see that leadership also needs Zeshanercong. Many people mistakenly think that good leaders have the same style, for example: command command, the macro control harmonious cooperation, democracy and freedom, authority responsible for mentoring and training.
In fact, the famous management book Six of these seemingly contradictory leadership, and because of the specific situation will be wise to use the right kind of different.
most choice in life is not wrong, black or white, either-or things. We have to learn in the most appropriate time for the most appropriate person with the most appropriate method, to learn to make decisions in a rational overall pros and cons of various factors to measure their abilities and inclinations.
(c) with a pragmatic choice to influence the integrity and balanced
, you must first figure out what you face is that you can affect, or you can not afford to change. Stephen. Covey in his book, Seven Habits high and low level, the problems of life can be divided into three categories:
can directly affect the question: For this problem, the solution lies in the implementation of the correct attitude. This is our mission possible, and it is the core sphere of influence encounter any problems, if you think that the negative and pessimistic state of mind.
fact, encounter problems, you just break it open patiently to see which part is you can influence and what part is you can look but can not influence. Then, to strive for those who can Come and lets you expand your sphere of influence.
So, whether a question is which of the three, the first step to solve the problem should start from their own sphere of influence: first of themselves, no longer affect the others, the last possible impact on the environment.
This method is the sufficient operational.
one student asked me: is trouble. Previously, because I could not understand the practice of certain students, said something in the air behind the words. On one occasion, he even used the terms student cadres in front of me leading a lot of fabricated charges. leadership to implement in the absence of survey dispose of the case to me. fair, because these are already happening, you can not influence, nor change. I advise you to think more, what matters is that you can influence and change. For example, you have not thought about, if you had not speaking ill of him behind, is not all this be avoided? I'm not saying other people are doing right, but you can only amend their own, not fix others. You must know how to modify their only way to avoid this the problem from happening again. If time could go back, you will do better? You will control your emotions, or will it get rid of bad things about the wrong person behind that? l Have you heard how I treat others, they r how to treat me this sentence? If you do not criticize others behind, it is likely that others will not motivate you. There is a saying: l Although we can not change the wind, but we can adjust the sails. r I hope you can clear understanding of life and work where their sails. the fact that after the announcement, much of the media because they were misled into believing that my breach of the contract left to made a number of sub-statements of fact. At that time, thanks to my lawyer friend reminded me: the media reports, we are powerless, because whirlpool case, I personally can not come forward to explain, otherwise not only added insult to injury, and may provide additional materials to each other. The judge's decision is that I can be indirectly affected, and we must strive to fight a good fight. As can be directly side effects of extensive search of evidence that I can look for witnesses, to understand the law, ready to confront the evidence confirmed that the other side lies. Thus, in two months time, I no longer subscribe to the newspaper, not on the news sites, is no longer confused by rumors. I spent 16 hours a day studying hard law, in each other's nearly 30 million documents found in the files we need, and attorneys with the drafting of our defense, court time and again to make rehearsal .9 May appear in court, we really win. It is worth mentioning is that when I return to China to work, I did not spend any effort trying to guide or change the media, media coverage is naturally completely transformed into a positive report. From this example, We can see that: focus on the things you can change, it may not change even when the last thing has changed.
(d) control the decision with calm
life is a continued choice of the game, this one of the most Importantly, we have to use a calm attitude control of the whole process of each choice:
the choice before the think, is to develop objective and precise sense. every important decision you probably closely related to their own future, but you choices and judgments, we must avoid preconceived mind-set, to avoid the tendency of their subjective accurate and objective judgments.
So what to do out of our objective and accurate decisions? I offer three suggestions to you:
First, the list of factors affect your choice as a Table ?
1998 years, I have before me two paths to choose from: Back to the Research Institute of China was founded, the company in the United States to do business. When I asked a lot of friends, , they said: out the pros and cons of a table:
pros and cons of using such a table, I quickly made the decision - back to work in China. because, after considering all pros and cons, back to China to work the best to play my own strengths, and most in line with my personal values and ideals.
Second, learn to look at the issue of probability theory methods.
In most cases, we did not need to believe that a choice must be the probability of success 100% or 0. On the contrary, we should learn to analyze the thing On the other hand, do not wait until it reaches 100% probability of success only to do, because even if a cause of this kind of thing, and nothing to be proud of.
do probability analysis, to list the possible any company established in China as well postgraduate - this is the worst; 40% sure I can make a world-class research institutions - this is the best possible. take into account in this way two extremes, I soon realize that even the worst, I can readily accept and companies.
course, many choices and not so good We need to carefully assess the risk factors, but also at the right time have the courage to challenge yourself. Former U.S. Secretary of State Colin Powell had explained, %, you should do it. Maybe you'll fail, but the cost of delay or waiting is often greater. br> more to seek the views of others is always good. those who are more experienced people can use their many years of accumulation for us the way, the highly intelligent people who can inspire us with their idea of intelligence, those who know how to describe a person can use their emotional intelligence to help us communicate effectively hh
when you ask the views of others, can carry the above-mentioned the other hand, you also avoid subjective influence others described. Of course, you also must understand that the final decision on your own, even if you accepted the views of others, you can not shirk this responsibility to others.
The so-called > For example, some people because of their lack of confidence, each time just to make the decision to immediately tense up, do not know what their choice will lead to results; some people really like take into consideration, but afterwards they regret forever; there are those who are too sensitive, that would have to make their own objective and fair decision, but after hearing others talk to swing hh
fact, both the right and your choice No, regardless of its outcome, the decision has been made can not be recovered, you only readily accept it, or in the future to find ways to remedy the situation. for what has happened, or things they have no control, any concern or remorse are is redundant. Rather than spend time on unnecessary anxiety, these things would be better to br> Chinese saying: understanding of their working life in the community may play a role in a clear positioning.
psychology, the ability to self-knowledge that are referred to as of, understand and correctly assess their qualifications, abilities and limitations, I believe their value and ability areas.
a conscious one can make for themselves the most intelligent choice, choose to do their own competence in job satisfaction can be selected to do the work and so on. a conscious person, neither will their ability to judge is too high, it will not easily underestimate their potential. on their own are often easy to judge too impetuous, aggressive , and others are not good at cooperation in the cause suffered a setback when the psychological gap is relatively large; people underestimate their potential will be over-cautious in their work, hesitant, do not shoulder the burden of responsibility and courage.
I a subordinate, a reads: development, because he lacks the most basic self. Sure enough, he soon made, I do not know his talent, he can not be reused, he decided to go to other departments and find another job. but he eventually found himself not only find more good jobs, the company's colleagues believe he lacks self-knowledge. Finally, he left the company in frustration.
(VI) accumulation of experience with learning
West has a fable, a young man talking to a consult the wisdom of the wise old secret. young man asked: said: very difficult to make the right choice, but the wrong choice time and time again, if you can learn from the lessons learned enough, he can gradually learn the right choice approach, he will naturally become a wise person. Looking back at my life, I can confidently say: I learned from failure much more than I learn from success. So, do not be afraid to fail. Every failure is not punished, but a learning experience.
learning experience is not something done overnight, sometimes long process to go through. In the words of English: headquarters, and found that the department has just taken over the direction of a project on the existing development team and not mm deviation of the user in the first place, and only know of something that seems very research and development projects. At that time, an employee asked me: What assured the project will not be a surprise in the next harvest it? SGI, the leadership team of more than 200 research and development of a three-dimensional walk through the world's most advanced technology. The technology hardware 10 years ago to create a beautiful three dimensional effect. But in doing this project, we did not consider the users and the market needs, developed three-dimensional experience, and not for a particular customer base, but to solve all customer problems. the results of the final product can not use SGI existing marketing channels, products and network hardware requirements are beyond the the capacity of ordinary users, our project was eventually canceled, technology has been sold.
hit it very big for me, because I have more than 200 men need to find a new way, and some people even so unemployed. my heart feels guilty. But on the other hand, I also learned from the painful lessons of the experience enough that I deeply understand: Innovation is important, but useful innovation is more important.
( g) the burden of
with courage to give up new opportunities when the time before us, To give up all that has been obtained, which requires considerable courage. Sometimes, you have not yet found a must give up something you already own, it requires more courage.
a lot of people have problems just do not want to give up what has been reluctant to open up new world. In fact, some things seem worth treasure, but this is often hindered the immediate interests of the more successful you get the source. When the arrival of new opportunities, the courage to give up the things that are not short of success has been obtained, more than halfway, which is to seek new development. If you are brave at the appropriate time should be the wise course, mm to mm to give up already has, but things may become obstacles to progress, you will likely be surprised to find: their own but put aside for a while to wind and rain, but line of sight of the umbrella will hinder their own thus see is extremely broad, extremely magnificent landscape picture!
I have had several The things that turn professional. the other in Carnegie. Mellon University teaching, the giving up of the two years to join Apple. Although I have been to my teacher as a role model, and taught at the world's top honor Department of Computer Science, but most of the time this work into how to get tenure, how to publish and so on. these things could have been a good thing, but these things value to society is not so straightforward. I hope to do some direct something beneficial to the community. So, when Apple, a vice president said to me, the to give up so you do not feel pity? When I see a stick to their ideals and socially responsible company, I found, the creation of Google China is a unique opportunity. So, as I mm has the right to choose I chose Google. I chose to China. I want to do mm influential in China, I can do more to help China's youth, the most influential thing to do. I want to be the best own mm in Google, I can learn new and innovative models through to become the best of themselves. ; is your inner values, ideals and interest. These three together constitute the most realistic of our inner voice.
how to find their own I will use a special read the newspaper, you do have been published as headline news, you will therefore not be ashamed of? will not face their own conscience? If not, you do things worthy of your own values.
The following is a . He wrote a paper 10 years ago, very good, but it was withdrawn after joining the company, stubborn, and working hard, not too many results. He knew that after the crisis facing the teacher asked us to share the hope that I am mindful of the friendships of fellow , let him.
is just another new employees joined the company two months, has not had time performance, but he should be a potential employee.
within my heart ; and do for themselves, ) cold Kai-fu Lee, a classmate of the brothers cut.
Although I do not want to see these two because it violates the basic principle of good faith I am. If I go against the principle of good faith, then I have neither seen the company's leaders face, not qualified to do a professional manager.
So I laid off a senior, Then I told him that in the future if there is any need me, I will try to help.
This is a painful experience, it goes against the very strong in my heart I maximize the impact. this vision has helped me to make many important decisions, such as return to China in 1998 founded Microsoft Research China, in 2005 and decided to join Google, and decided to return to China Venture, these major In fact, all my heart choose to follow the performance: I think my ideal can be achieved better in China.
before the age of 25 college students, they usually face two important choices. First, select the most suited to their profession, The second is to choose the most suitable job. Select the professional time, should not just listen to the views from their parents, nor should look at the size or reputation of the school students sit for the high and low scores. Accordingly, the choice of work can not simply be considered when name, Lee, fashion external factors. I think the most important thing is to listen to your inner voice, in the consolidated balance their ideals, study the accumulation of talent and working conditions, based on making the right choice.
each person's will soon become the world's largest market and the largest centers. There are numerous opportunities waiting for you, as long as you take the initiative to choose with wisdom, success may come at any time to your side!
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the fifth letter to Chinese students: You have the right to choose

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

The first four banks lending interest rate concessions or suite will be fully canceled

 Small banks have been following the previous
canceled after the first suite prime rate loans, recently, the four major banks have begun lending suite on the first knife, the first prime rate loans suites facing the fate abolished. First came news of Beijing, ICBC has been in Beijing since 28 started the implementation of the New Deal mortgage, interest rate loan to cancel the first suite offers. Insiders said the estimated long, the market will fully students changed.

It is understood that in Beijing, ICBC is the first suite for buying second-hand housing, in principle, are in accordance with the implementation of the benchmark interest rate, eliminating the preferential rate to float downward earlier; to buy a new house, real estate developers in development loans ICBC received, the first suite of real estate can perform the benchmark interest rate a loan, in accordance with the implementation of a minimum of 8.5 fold. There will be some flexibility in the specific implementation, such as VIP customers may have some interest rate concessions. Part of ICBC branch in Guangzhou, said the credit department staff, for the first suites loans, current interest rates still fall a minimum of 15%, but the policy at any time may be changed.

Previously, Shanghai Pudong Development Bank, China Everbright Bank and China Minsheng Bank in the Beijing area have been stopped the first suite loan interest rate concessions. Guangzhou Cheng Lu Zhiguang, general manager of mortgage companies to disclose race, said the Guangzhou market, small and medium banks almost complete abolition of the preferential interest rate loans first suite. Last week, the broad issue that the implementation of the benchmark interest rate on the first suite; deep development issued a notice that the credit for the first suites interest rates go up 10% of the implementation of the New Deal. Although a few banks that did not clear the first suite to cancel preferential interest rate loans, but has rarely give credit interest rate to float downward in the first suite, and some banks even though the book has been awarded the same credit, but that changed on a whim, so the basic mortgage companies do not apply to small and medium banks loan of the first suite.

Lu Zhiguang said after the four major banks who did not dare stand up to do the first one, so the maximum credit can still get the first suite to fall 15% of the preferential interest rates, but lending rates to fall out of the first suite very little.

Lu Zhiguang said that although the bank did not explicitly said it would cancel the first suite of prime rate loans, but has been interested in the benchmark interest rate to guide the customer to the estimated long, the market has changed we must comprehensively, and as long as there where a large First-line stand, other banks will soon follow.

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Nadal sadly left under the gorgeous fireworks No one knows the pain of his

 Splendid fireworks lit
Melbourne

AP January 26 is Australia Day, this day will be special fireworks display in Melbourne, even the global attention of the Australian Open will be concessions for the celebration of the project. This year's National Day fireworks still gorgeous, in stark contrast to the unexpected exit of top seed Rafael Nadal. Spanish fans at this so hard to sleep at night, who can really read the lonely hearts of the world sinking?

Nadal against Ferrer, even a layman with little knowledge of tennis will know that the balance should favor the former victory. But the fact is that experience on to the bad. Surprisingly, the top seed Ferrer successfully broken the first serve, a lot of people say this is only the beginning; Sure enough, Nadal broke back later to finish, that is, the Board may, after he handed over control of the game.

behind the first set 1-2, Nadal request a medical suspension, follow the tournament staff back to the lounge for a short treatment. No one knows what injury, but Nadal and return to the game a few days before different person, a slower pace, the ball weakness, stiff ... ... everyone's guess Nadal will not be like last year , pulled out injured? He did not, he was a most unnatural state of efforts to resist the Ferrer's attack, until the last minutes.

to retire last year because of the feeling is very bad, do not want to experience, so Nadal Renzheshangtong, endured the humiliation of the score that may seem to accept the suffering. Out the world, but he was not a failure. Spaniards swept the ball lens package, above the row of neatly painted with four colors of star, a record of his time in 6 years, the removal of nine Grand Slam titles this weekend, he was no longer able to add their own 10 stars. Even if weak, as a number one Rafael Nadal still has the pride, even if a failure, he also wants to stick to the end. The first game of the world, the meaning has gone beyond the results.

the match with Ferrer, Nadal won his own adherence to the applause of the audience and won the respect of opponents, but for an athlete, a great champion for, the applause and respect is not enough He needs to win, is the promotion of the qualification is the next champion, but these three do not belong to him on this night.

2005, the number of people feel that Nadal is only a Fengpao child, and he took the French Open; 2008, we all feel that Nadal on clay only defense, the result became his Wimbledon trophy collection; Nadal is only in the fast-pitch second-rate group? No, because the Australian Open and U.S. has long been a foregone conclusion. Nadal has never stopped progress in the past 6 years against not only his opponents, the media, more terrible enemy is invisible injury. Last year, when Nadal recovered from a knee injury in the sweep the next three majors, we think that God began to become fair, this misconception is corrected at this Australian Open.

No one knows what happened, even Nadal is no cause, this is where the most helpless. Affirmed in all Nadal's strength, he and Roger Federer will be put together in the After the match, Nadal actually very quiet inside, looking up the tears would not stay? Can be rubbed off the fingers are still reddish eyes, unwilling world. Look up a gorgeous display of fireworks over Melbourne, and then remember what happened that night, Nadal's mind Zuoheganxiang? Puzzled or helpless? The pain of this moment I am afraid that only he himself understood.

(Simone)

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Starbucks first-quarter earnings up by 44% over the expected

 Tencent Finance YORK January 27 morning news, after-hours coffee retailer Starbucks announced on Wednesday its first-quarter performance report, financial results, continued sales growth by promoting, the company earnings season from the year earlier to 2.42 billion U.S. dollars, or about 32 cents per share, an increase to 3.47 billion U.S. dollars, or about 45 cents per share, better than analysts had on average expected profit of 39 cents per share.

financial report also shows that Starbucks quarter revenue grew 8% to 30 billion U.S. dollars, better than analysts had expected 29.2 billion.

Starbucks quarter comparable same-store sales increased 7% for the fifth consecutive quarter of growth.

Starbucks also raised its earnings report expected 2011 earnings at the low end. Starbucks also warned that rising costs of commodity prices will weaken earnings per share of 20 cents per share higher than previously expected 8 to 10 cents. (Yi Song)

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

People's Insurance Department in 2010 to introduce 481 high-level creative talent from overseas

 Human Resources and Social Security Ministry spokesman Yin Chengji briefing (Photo by China Network Patrick)

human resources and support China's Ministry of Reuters January 25 in the West Human Resources and Social Security Institute (peace in the Middle Street, Dongcheng District, No. 12) Main Building, Room 216, held a news conference to introduce the community and the general media, human 2010 resources and social security progress. China Network live broadcast.

Human Resources and Social Security Ministry spokesman Yin Chengji describes the progress of qualified personnel. Among them, the high-level professional and technical personnel was strengthened. Selection of nearly 4,000 officers enjoy special government allowances, the new post-doctoral research station 516. Home business development support to the views of students studying abroad to return home and strengthen the work of the views of service system, strengthen the construction of Overseas Students Pioneer Park. With the relevant departments will continue to implement plans to introduce overseas high-level personnel, the introduction of 481 last year in two groups of high level creative talent from overseas. Continue to study high-level personnel to return to work pilot project funded students studying science and technology activities and projects funded merit-based work. Depth development of professional and technical personnel to continue education, training professional and technical personnel training total 300 million passengers. Continuation of Xinjiang, Tibet, special training minority professional and technical personnel work and personnel training project of Qinghai Three Rivers, 95 were held throughout the year IAS classes, training more than 6,000 middle and senior professional and technical personnel. 

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Temperature heat outbound Chinese tourists

 Temperature heat outbound Chinese tourists to buy luxury goods mad exceptionally eye-catching, but this phenomenon can not reflect the Chinese consumer income real situation of society.

Temperature heat outbound Chinese tourists to buy luxury goods mad exceptionally eye-catching, but this phenomenon does not reflect consumer income of Chinese residents the real situation of society, irrational nor outside the main consumers of ordinary working-class person on behalf of China. Rendering of foreign media coverage worth a careful look.

Chinese New Year around the world to make money?

Every turn of the year, the Western media for the Chinese outbound tourism will shopping spree scene for some vivid description. British full of high spirits of Chinese people, just like (GreatMalofChina); these the

human consumption only 15%. In 2009, the Chinese people in the UK ? 1.17 to buy luxury goods, but only the Christmas quarter of last year, this month, the Chinese had ho throw one billion pounds.

France's In the euro, the European sovereign debt continues to ferment the moment, European countries, like France, Britain, Spain and Italy are developing plans to vigorously attract Chinese tourists like to take this

Foreign media in the

Channel V is the more influential travel media, regularly published Chinese outbound and domestic travel index, an annual selection of the most influential Chinese outbound travel business.

Cao Ge, analysts say, if last year's 2.1 million outbound Chinese tourists to Europe, per capita consumption of 50,000 yuan terms, but also more than 1,000 million yuan, the money spending trillions of pounds on the UK GDP watching tape, it is negligible. Lack of foreign media coverage of the data for the letter, because the business of the actual sales data is its own trade secrets are generally not made public. In China, official statistics, last year China's tourism services trade deficit of more than 50 billion U.S. dollars, however, why the Chinese people a Christmas season in the UK consume one billion pounds on a luxury?

Foreign media reports, if not In fact, the West is in with a condescending attitude to the mentality of a gentleman in deliberate defiance of dig upstart Chinese consumer attitudes deformity, Cao Ge said, China is still not as good. Because this evidence to the contrary the poor environment of China's domestic consumption (luxury prices abnormally high), and China's industrial chain in the world the tragic reality of the end (many luxury goods made in China allows the vast majority of international brands to grab profits.)


Conspicuous consumption can not be outside on behalf of the Chinese-style reality

Tourism Research Center of Chinese Academy of Social Sciences Research Fellow Professor Wang Jianmin on the same day interview with this reporter said: is It's also China's per capita GDP highest in the world is not commensurate with the status of more than 100, and can not help improve China's image, perhaps just the opposite.

Outbound tourism so

A recent news spread quite widely in the network: Inner Mongolia by the private coal mine owners and local government officials, the Parthian shot, continue to buy. In Japan, China,

He said, foreign media reports, we should not feel complacent and can not therefore conclude that: The Chinese outbound tourism has become a major country or power. Turn over the Japanese economy to take off the seventies and eighties of last century, appreciation of the yen led lucrative large-scale Japanese people travel abroad, but they did not show Deal or No Deal more pride; behaved, quiet, disciplined Japanese Visitors to the U.S. and Europe who'd left a deep impression.

China's outbound tourism is still the primary stage

Wang Jianmin that the consumption of Chinese tourists abroad China has a

Academy of Social Sciences Research Center of Academic Committee of Tourism, told reporters Weixiao An exit shopping ordinary Chinese people, on behalf of their actual spending power behind a family and a large circle of relatives and friends. Last year, more than 30 million Chinese people travel to the UK, real spending power to buy top-level luxury perhaps no more than 3,000 people, 3,000 people outside the media to cover the phenomenon of consumption of 30 million people in the head. Consumption of luxury goods is perhaps the main force of upstarts, but the vast majority of people travel abroad or the ordinary working class and urban white-collar workers.

Academy of Social Sciences, according to latest data released by Tourism Research Institute, 2010, China outbound travel to more than 4500 million. Wang Jianmin analysis, scrutinize, under which more than 4000 million, the overwhelming majority went to Hong Kong and Macao, followed by Southeast Asia. Last year, the Chinese people to the United States only 100 million people travel to Europe just over 200 million. This hand, confirms the reality of Chinese Outbound Tourism: Chinese popular tourist spending power is still insufficient, more than 10 million people per capita travel is also more than just once a year (mainly in China, a domestic travel budget per capita 500 yuan), while residents of more than 7 times the developed countries.

Wang Jianmin, told reporters from the outbound tourism product analysis, 4000-8000 yuan sales among the best, these products accounted for about 70%, the price of thousands, the number dropped, leaving more than 30,000 tourism products is basically a a large group to travel a good year group. For example, North Africa, Tunisia, the scenery of the Mediterranean and the vast Sahara desert scenery in China every year to promote, but that has a huge population of 20 million in Beijing, one year it can only form a group that is no matter how the country's tourism sector is also crying no choice but to accept this reality.

Cao Ge with reporters about a different view. He believes that China's outbound travel is gradually leave the initial stage, gradually becoming more mature. He believes that this concept of consumer travel show in the one hand, in progress, the rapid acceptance in high-end products, they began the pursuit of quality tourism, while the personal status On the other hand, travel agents have begun to say goodbye to a price war, the introduction of price and quality Chinese New Year from all outbound travel agents offer of view, 30,000, 50,000 above the In today's increasingly competitive tourism industry, the average price of outbound access to product prices increase, reflecting the travel agencies have become more mature.